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Thank you for being a part of the Aging Abundantly Community and the movement toward a better, happier, - [REACHING - POETRY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/reaching-a-poem/) - REACHING When I bent down to pick up the pieces of my life, I shoved my hands into the black soot of death and reached through the bitter haze of unspent emotions, to find fragments of me, inert, motionless and suffocating. * When I bent down to pick up the pieces of my mind, I - [A Safe Place](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-a-safe-place/) - , As I began my healing work, I was guided ever so gently toward the discovery of my safe place. Finding this space was not easy, nor was it anything like I expected it to be. I did not expect to go inside of myself and find an anchor, a lifeline, a living, breathing being - [Overcoming Writer's Block Late Blooming Writers](https://www.agingabundantly.com/overcoming-writers-block-for-late-blooming-writers/) - Overcoming writer’s block is something every writer must face. For new writers over fifty, it can be particularly challenging. We feel a sense of urgency as the years creep up on us. We often feel as though we are playing catch up and we have the nagging feeling that everyone else knows more than we - [Financial Hardship and Older Women](https://www.agingabundantly.com/financial-hardship-and-older-women/) - Financial hardship impacts many women who are trying to age abundantly! I am one of them. Researching this topic, I ran across an article in the New York Times entitled Why Older Women Face Greater Financial Hardship Than Older Men. What I read in the article did not surprise me, but the statistics are mind-boggling. - [A New Decade, A New Choice](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-new-decade-a-new-choice/) - Every day we have a choice ~ to dwell on the past or focus on today. Ask yourself: what can I do today to bring me one step closer to my dream? We have this moment...now. Don't we owe it to ourselves to make the most of it? A NEW DECADE - A New - [I Honor You Robin Williams](https://www.agingabundantly.com/i-honor-you-robin-williams/) - A Tribute by Dorothy Sander Creativity yearns and churns, Stretches and aches, bogged down by relentless nagging, driven by the ardent and fierce tingles of sinuous standings. Almost unbidden, in a moment of neglect, it erupts and breaks free bursting forth in weightlessness, Sucking in the lifeblood of release to dance wildly across a kaleidoscopic field of - [7 Top Ways To Manage Your Mental Health](https://www.agingabundantly.com/5-top-ways-to-manage-your-mental-health/) - The media keeps us well-versed on the subjects of health and wellness. However, less is written on how women over fifty can manage their mental health. And yet, our mental health plays a key role in how much we enjoy life. Perhaps we focus on our physical health because it's less complicated. Learning to manage - [Six Months on the Quiet Path - A Guide to My Substack Posts](https://www.agingabundantly.com/six-months-on-the-quiet-path-a-guide-to-my-substack-posts/) - A gentle reflection on finding peace, purpose, and connection through six months of writings on the Quiet Path from The Wisdom Within Substack. - [Jung’s 7 Tasks of Aging: Task One — Facing the Reality of Aging and Dying](https://www.agingabundantly.com/task-one-of-carl-jungs-7-tasks-of-aging/) - Task One of Jung’s 7 Tasks of Aging: meet aging and mortality with honesty; avoid cultural traps; begin with quiet, breath, writing, nature, and meditation. - [Caring Without Carrying](https://www.agingabundantly.com/caring-without-carrying/) - Caring without carrying: five gentle practices to support others, set kind boundaries, and protect your energy—so you can stay steady, compassionate, and well. - [Evening Snacks to Support Sleep and Emotional Well-Being](https://www.agingabundantly.com/evening-snacks-to-support-sleep-and-emotional-well-being/) - Gentle bedtime snacks to support sleep and emotional well-being, tailored to how you feel—anxious, weepy, restless, or calm. - [When Nature Is Out of Reach: Moving Gently Indoors](https://www.agingabundantly.com/moving-gently-indoors/) - Trapped by extreme summer heat? Try moving gently indoors to support your well-being and ground yourself when going outside isn’t an option. - [CALLING MY ENERGY HOME - Caregiver Burnout](https://www.agingabundantly.com/caregiver-burnout/) - Midlife stress, caregiving, caregiver burnout —this personal essay offers a gentle reminder to pause, release, and reclaim your own path. - [Making The Lives Of Your Family Members Better](https://www.agingabundantly.com/making-the-lives-of-your-family-members-better/) - Looking after a family is not easy. Working together to make each other’s lives easier is something we all try to do. It’s not just about easing day-to-day burdens, however, but taking care of each other in less obvious ways. If you're wondering whether or not you're doing enough for your loved ones, here are - [For the In-Between Places](https://www.agingabundantly.com/for-the-in-between-places/) - A new book for when you're not who you were — and not quite who you're becoming. . . I’m thrilled to share that my newest book — The Wisdom Within: A Companion for the Journey from Transition to Transformation — is now in production and will be available any day. It’s been a labor - [FINDING YOUR HAPPY PLACE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-your-happy-place/) - Happy place? I can hear you rolling your eyes. Really? Life is hard! Your just talking woo woo nonsense, and I'm not having any of it. WAIT! Don't go. Read on. - [FINDING TIME FOR CREATIVITY Women Over 50](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-time-for-creativity-women-over-50/) - Finding time for creativity amidst all your responsibilities can be challenging, but it's definitely possible with small, intentional steps. Here are a few tips - [THESE ARE TUMULTUOUS TIMES, AND. . .](https://www.agingabundantly.com/these-are-tumultuous-times-and/) - Step out of the chaos and back into sanity and well-being. A few simple adjustments to your lifestyle can break your bond with these tumultuous times. - [KEYS TO HAPPY RETIREMENT LIVING](https://www.agingabundantly.com/keys-to-happy-retirement-living/) - Don't wait until you retire to think about and plan your retirement years. It can be one of the best times of life. Here's a few tips to help you make a plan. - [CAREGIVER SUPPORT](https://www.agingabundantly.com/caregiver-support/) - Caregiving is an enormous challenge. I know first hand. Here are a few things I do to keep my sanity and find joy in my life. - [LIFE AFTER 50: Tips to Help You Age Better](https://www.agingabundantly.com/life-after-50/) - Life after 50 just keeps getting better and better! It's the perfect time to start taking better care of yourself and making the changes you've always wanted to make. After all, the effort you make now will help ensure you enjoy your older wiser years. Now is the time to learn everything you need to - [Trouble Hearing? It May Be Time To See An Audiologist](https://www.agingabundantly.com/having-trouble-hearing/) - Are you having trouble hearing? Hearing loss has many causes and takes a variety of forms. The hearing process is a very complex process. Sound travels through the ear and into different areas of the outer and inner ear to the brain stem. Any disruption along the path can cause hearing loss. So, if you - [Health Issues To Be Prepared For When You Age](https://www.agingabundantly.com/health-issues-of-aging/) - Our bodies change and develop even as we grow older. Many changes are positive. A few common health issues and small nagging problems may surface. Watch for . . - [FOUR TOOLS TO HELP WITH MOBILITY ISSUES](https://www.agingabundantly.com/mobility-issues/) - HAVING TROUBLE GETTING AROUND? It's not uncommon to begin to develop mobility issues as we get a little older. Fortunately, dozens of medical devices have been designed to assist us and keep us safe. If you are experiencing difficulty moving from place to place in your home, or when out and about consider some of - [Realities of Aging You May Not Be Prepared For](https://www.agingabundantly.com/realities-of-aging-you-may-not-be-prepared-for/) - Growing older can be an enriching journey. Yet unexpected challenges can appear. Following are a few realities of aging to consider and prepare for. - [SIMPLE WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR MENTAL HEALTH](https://www.agingabundantly.com/simple-ways-to-improve-your-mental-health/) - Our mental health is as important as our physical health. We don't always put it at the top of our list. Take a few minutes to read how you can improve yours. - [SUPPORT AGING PARENTS without Losing You!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/how-to-support-aging-parents-without-losing-yourself/) - Taking on the role of caregiver to aging parents brings many mixed emotions, and a ton of extra items on our to-do list! Take heart with help and support. - [NAVIGATING EMOTIONS in DIFFICULT TIMES](https://www.agingabundantly.com/navigating-emotions-during-difficult-times/) - Our feelings tell us what we want and don't want. When we pay attention to them, we can use them to guide our ship through treacherous waters. Here's how. - [BURN SOME SAGE - Always a Reason to Hope](https://www.agingabundantly.com/burn-some-sage-always-a-reason-to-hope/) - Today is a day of rest for me, and maybe for you. When big things happen we burn up a ton of energy coping, managing our emotions, helping others. Today's post: - [11/6/2024 A Message for My Children & Grandchildren](https://www.agingabundantly.com/11-6-2024-a-message-for-my-children-grandchildren/) - In the darkness morning, as I struggled to absorb current events, I began writing to my children. What can I say? How can I give them hope? The following is what I sent to them - [DEAR FRIENDS & KIND HEARTS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/dear-friends-kind-hearts/) - It is up to us to be the light, for one another, for our children and grandchildren. We must choose every day to align ourselves with love and. . . - [Retirement Hacks to Think About](https://www.agingabundantly.com/retirement-hacks-to-think-about/) - Retirement is a major life transition. It is important to do some planning in advance and to consider all of your options. Hear are a few to think about - [NARRATIVE NON-FICTION - BOOK REVIEW](https://www.agingabundantly.com/narrative-non-fiction-reviews/) - It's no secret I'm a fan of non-fiction and memoir. Here I offer two excellent narrative non-fiction books for your summer reading. Don't miss them! - [FINDING JOY AS WE AGE - A CHOICE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-joy-as-we-age-a-choice/) - We've been so busy with the external world and all its challenges that we may have lost sight of what makes us happy. We become problem-focused, instead of . . - [TIPS FOR CHOOSING THE RIGHT CARE SUPPORT](https://www.agingabundantly.com/tips-for-choosing-the-right-care-support/) - Many people realize, at some point, that they need some form of care support. If this is where you are now, take a few moments to read through the following tips. As you do, begin considering what kind of care will suit your needs best. Where to Receive Care Support First, consider where would you - [BEES ~ What They Teach Us About Dying](https://www.agingabundantly.com/bees-what-they-teach-us-about-dying/) - The behavior of bees contains many lessons for us humans. If we pay close attention we can learn something from them about how we might think about dying. - [DISCOVER NEW THINGS AS YOU GET OLDER](https://www.agingabundantly.com/discover-new-things-as-you-get-older/) - Discover new things and stay young at heart! Staying active in mind, body and spirit is the best way to make the most of life after fifty. Here are a few tips: - [MEDITATION, TECHNOLOGY & AGING ABUNDANTLY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/meditation-technology-aging-abundantly/) - Meditation in the world of technology is possible, but can prove more challenging. Discovering the inner world starts at an early age and paves the way. - [Important Tips That Will Help You Deal With Retirement](https://www.agingabundantly.com/important-tips-that-will-help-you-deal-with-retirement/) - Retirement is something that most of us will face at some time in the future. Preparing in advance will help us through the transition years. Now is the time to start thinking about what we would like our retirement years to look like and exploring the options available to us. There are so many possibilities - [FROM QUIET TO CHAOS - Practicing "Segment Intending"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/from-quiet-to-chaos-practicing-segment-intending/) - chugga chugga chug . . . one step at a time . . . this has been my motto going on a year now. Life went from quiet to chaos seemingly overnight. Have you noticed how it has a way doing that?! I was so sad when my sons moved 1,000 miles west. I was - [7 GREAT DESSERTS to Top Off Your Dinner Party](https://www.agingabundantly.com/7-great-desserts-to-top-off-a-dinner-party/) - Dessert ideas for your next dinner party. - [GRANDDAD - A Memoir Moment](https://www.agingabundantly.com/granddad-memoir-moment/) - It's the summer solstice and my grandmother's birthday. The connection seems absolutely right, though I know little about her. My mother told me of her love of nature. . . a gift passed down through the generations in our family. Now, as I watch my son till and plant his garden I see the circle - [HOW TO AVOID CAREGIVER BURNOUT](https://www.agingabundantly.com/how-to-avoid-caregiver-burnout/) - Caregiving is a demanding, and often unexpected occurrence. Most of us do it out of love and necessity and too often underestimate the toll it takes on us. - [NEW BLOGGERS: The Benefits of A Website](https://www.agingabundantly.com/new-bloggers-the-benefits-of-a-website/) - New bloggers are faced with the decision of where to share their creations. Social media offers immediate access to audiences, but a website remains essential. - [LEARN TO MEDITATE THE EASY WAY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/learn-to-meditate-the-easy-way/) - Do you want to meditate but fear it is out of your comfort zone? If so, you've come to the right place. I understand! As a young adult I secretly admired the people I heard about who made trips to the "mountain top" that didn't require LSD! Always interested and curious about the spiritual world, - [Managing Menopause](https://www.agingabundantly.com/managing-menopause/) - Menopause arrived in my life when I wasn't paying attention and it came in arcing swirls of confusing symptoms, that ebbed and flowed in an annoyingly unpredictable fashion. In my forties, I was blissfully unaware that the night sweats I was experiencing was actually peri-menopause. Furthermore, moodiness and irritability were a part of my very - [The Challenges We Face - Finding a New Normal](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-challenges-we-face-finding-a-new-normal/) - Just when we think the challenges we face can't get any bigger, they do. The last three plus years of political divide around the world has upended our sense of who we are as a people and a nation. It seems every conversation is potentially a contentious one. We avoid certain topics of conversation, people - [Retiree's Bucket List - Things to Do to Spice Up Your Retirement](https://www.agingabundantly.com/retirees-bucket-list-things-to-do-to-spice-up-your-retirement/) - Retirement offers an exciting opportunity to embark on new adventures. Revisit forgotten hobbies and craft an itinerary filled with laughter and wisdom. Contrary to popular belief, creating a bucket list is not just reserved for young adults. Research has shown that such a list can bring vitality and enthusiasm back into retirees lives as well. - [HOW TO PROTECT YOUR FINANCIAL FUTURE AS YOU AGE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/how-to-protect-your-financial-future-as-you-age/) - Making an effort to protect our financial future is an important consideration as we age. We are all getting older. It is, after all, a fact of life! But, how we face and deal with the aging process is a choice. Each morning we have the opportunity to choose abundance or something less. We can - [Getting to Know Our Body - Diet & the Healing Process](https://www.agingabundantly.com/getting-to-know-you/) - I learned so much about diet and the healing process wile working with Crystal (a highly trained Naturopath and RN) We have completed our work together for now, but I will touch base with her in August. Here's a few things I've learned: 1. Our dietary habits impact on all areas of our lives, from - [A World of Abundance](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-world-of-abundance/) - A world of abundance lives outside of my window this morning. I am drawn to the Carolina blue sky. My breath catches as I see the sun's rays wash over the lush green foliage along the driveway's edge. It's hard to imagine that in just a few short weeks the landscape will look quite different. - [Our Authentic Inner Voice](https://www.agingabundantly.com/our-authentic-inner-voice/) - Finding our authentic inner voice is a useful endeavor, even as it is a difficult one. I've written much in the midst of my pain over the last decade, but now that I'm in a clearing space I find my perspective is different, my view broader and broader by the day. I was listening to - [Creating a New Life Free of PTSD Symptoms](https://www.agingabundantly.com/creating-a-new-life-free-of-ptsd-symptoms/) - Writing is one of my best defenses against the darkness as I endeavor to live a life free of PTSD symptoms. Sometimes things get in the way and interrupt the quiet time I need to write. Last week, my computer broke and I spent several hours getting it up and running. Then there was a - [Beneath Our Pain](https://www.agingabundantly.com/we-cannot-ignore-the-cry/) - We dig beneath our pain not only to eliminate the pain, but to grow through and beyond it; to discover what, or who, is lurking there in the dark corner of our heart left unattended as life passed swiftly by. When we grow weary of living on the surface, of trying to catch each wave - [A Reason to Journey On](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-reason-to-journey-on/) - Since last writing, I have been on a journey, both an exterior one and an interior one. We are all, everyday, journeying somewhere, whether we leave our home or not. There is so very much to learn about the nature of life, the gift of living, and our reason for being here. It is a - [Gutting It Out](https://www.agingabundantly.com/gut-it-out/) - Sometimes it just takes guts. Sometimes we can't think our way to a solution. We can't whine our way to the answer. We can't emote our way to healing. Sometimes it just takes guts and putting one foot in front of the other and doing the thing we think we cannot do, facing that thing - [The Aftermath of a Childhood of Abuse](https://www.agingabundantly.com/childhood-of-abuse/) - A childhood of abuse or neglect sets the stage for an adult who does not know who they are. Healthy boundaries are either a mystery or non-existent, and their behavior often either too rigid or too fluid. When we don't know who we are, we may unconsciously cling to the rules and belief systems that - [PRIVACY POLICY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/privacy-policy/) - PRIVACY NOTICE Last updated January 19, 2023 This privacy notice for Aging Abundantly ("Company," "we," "us," or "our"), describes how and why we might collect, store, use, and/or share ("process") your information when you use our services ("Services"), such as when you: Visit our website at http://www.agingabundantly.com, or any website of ours that links to - [LIVING A FULFILLING LIFE AFTER RETIREMENT](https://www.agingabundantly.com/life-after-retirement/) - Life after retirement starts out with a period of adjustment. While it may feel like a time of endings at first, it is also filled with possibilities and new beginnings. Getting older is a privilege. It is important that we try to see it this way. We hear so much about worsening health for the - [7 TYPES OF LAWYERS HELPFUL TO SENIORS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/7-types-of-lawyers-helpful-to-seniors/) - hey youThere are many different types of lawyers that deal with different types of legal matters. As you reach your retirement years, it's a good time to start thinking about estate planning and other legal matters. Understanding the different types of lawyers specifically trained to provide this types of assistance is essential to making an - [MAKING FRIENDS AS A SENIOR](https://www.agingabundantly.com/making-friends-as-a-senior/) - Making friends as a senior citizen is not always easy, especially if you have recently retired, lost a spouse, and/or moved to a new home or location. But, do not be disheartened. There are steps you can take to find friends and build relationships at every age. We all need and want companionship. Research has - [How to Feel Graceful When Aging](https://www.agingabundantly.com/how-to-feel-graceful-when-aging/) - We all want to feel graceful as we age, but it can be difficult to accept aging. The physical changes we experience won't let us ignore it! What really matters, however, is how we think about life, and ourselves, as we age. Are we going to embrace every change with the curiosity of discovery? Or, - [MAKING CHOICES & SETTING LIMITS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/making-choices-setting-limits/) - Making choices and setting limits are two invaluable tools for mental health and self-discovery. This is especially true at midlife and during times of transition and change. Our choices define who we are and saying yes to what we want and no to what we don't want tells others who we are. Each time we - [FINDING OUR COMFORT ZONE AS WE AGE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-our-comfort-zone-as-we-age/) - When we are able to create a level of comfort in our day-to-day lives, we are in a much better place to cope with the unexpected. This is especially true the older we get when resilience makes a difference in how we bounce back physically and emotionally. The uncertainties of aging, such as loss, health - [14 TOP MOVIES FEATURING OLDER WOMEN](https://www.agingabundantly.com/14-top-movies-featuring-older-women/) - Movies featuring older women have historically been a rarity. Women have had a rough ride in the film industry, as they struggled for substantial roles. Systemic ageism and sexism have deprived the world of some stellar performances, but the tide is slowly turning. Some great movies have managed to slip through the ageist net. The - [RESENTMENT & SELF-PITY: Signposts for Self-Awareness](https://www.agingabundantly.com/resentment-and-self-pity/) - Resentment and self-pity are two feeling states that we have all experienced at one time or another. While they are uncomfortable, and often unproductive, with awareness and attention they can be tools for greater self-awareness and improved mental health. PRIMARY AND SECONDARY EMOTIONS It is helpful to first understand the difference between primary emotions and - [EASTER: A SYMBOL OF HOPE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/easter-a-symbol-of-hope/) - The symbolism of Easter belongs to all, regardless of specific religious beliefs. Death and resurrection, or the life, death, life cycle, takes its cue from nature. The change of the seasons in spring aptly coincides with the Christian celebration of Easter in many parts of the world. As we watch the unfolding of new life, - [NAVIGATING TRANSITIONS - Another Chapter](https://www.agingabundantly.com/navigating-transitions-another-chapter/) - Navigating transitions becomes an art form for many of us, by the time we reach our 60s and 70s. When I wrote several years ago about my husband's diagnosis, I thought I'd write my way through the changes that were sure to come. But, some times things are just too complex and painful to talk - [HOME ORGANIZATION & IMPROVEMENTS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/home-organization/) - It's no secret that the pandemic launched all manner of home organization and improvements. For us, it was the perfect opportunity to take the steps necessary to adapt to Scott's decreased mobility. The downtime afforded by the pandemic gave us an opportunity to undertake a home upfit. We've enjoyed the results so much, I decided - [PLANNING FOR YOUR FUTURE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/planning-for-your-future/) - Planning for your future is an exercise in good self-care. It's an valuable step to take, not only for tomorrow, but because it will give you peace of mind today. By deciding what's most important to you, discovering what your options are and putting relative things in place, you will alleviate stress. That nagging feeling - [DOES EXERCISE INTENSITY MATTER - PART 3 of Exercise & Depression](https://www.agingabundantly.com/does-exercise-intensity-matter/) - When you're new to exercise any kind of movement is a positive. But, you may be wondering if exercise intensity adds to its benefits. While research into exercise and depression is ongoing, some studies show that intensity offers no additional benefit. That being said, however, in my experience, the more my overall health improves the - [EXERCISE: A Tool to Diminish Depression](https://www.agingabundantly.com/exercise-a-tool-to-diminish-depression/) - Diminish Depression with Exercise Even a slight decrease in depression is huge for those experiencing depression. It is a complicated illness that, when left unattended, destroys relationships, careers, opportunities and the ability to enjoy ones life. Taking steps to diminish depression only makes sense. Fortunately, research has come a long way since I first started - [HOW TO ADD EXERCISE TO YOUR LIFE - Defeat Depression Part 2](https://www.agingabundantly.com/how-to-add-exercise-to-your-life/) - GET UP AND MOVE You may already be aware of the research that shows that when we add exercise to our life it lifts our mood. But knowledge does nothing unless we put it to use. In this post, I want to help you do just that. As I’ve said, I'm one of those people - [Four Cheese Ziti Marinara by Healthy Choice - A Review](https://www.agingabundantly.com/four-cheese-ziti-marinara-by-healthy-choice-a-review/) - I had the opportunity to sample a Healthy Choice Baked Entree last night, thanks to Vibrant Nation and being a part of the Vibrant Nation Influencer Network. Somehow they discovered that I love to give my opinion on products and even fill out surveys now and again for free. It gives me a sense of - [Do You Carry Life Insurance?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/do-you-carry-life-insurance/) - Women have come a long way in the work force in my life time. They've made great strides in the business world and in their ability to earn an income and be self-supporting on many levels. Research shows that women are now the sole or primary breadwinner in 40% of U.S. households. In one generation, - [Self-Actualization....Really??](https://www.agingabundantly.com/self-actualization-really/) - I was up later than usual last night. It was one of those sleepless nights. I don't usually watch TV when I can't sleep, but I had it on in the background for company while I worked on my laptop, and David Letterman came on. My curiosity peaked when he announced that Cher would be - [Create, Not Curate!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/create-not-curate/) - Today begins the journey to manifest me in 2014. Yesterday, as I was browsing my email, reading blog posts and generally wasting a whole lot of time online, I ran across a young woman who had begun a year or more ago to write a poem a day. It was simply a practice she decided - [Married or Single - A Reality Check](https://www.agingabundantly.com/marriage-or-single-a-reality-check/) - I've lost more than one close friend because I was married and my friend was either not married, or divorced. There seems to be an unspoken and clumsily resurrected wall placed by women of our generation between the married and the unmarried; an unspoken ambivalence of sorts that keeps us from communicating openly and honestly - [5 Risks Of A Fall Inside & Outside Your Home](https://www.agingabundantly.com/5-risks-of-a-fall-inside-outside-your-home/) - A fall can be serious. Every year, millions of older adults fall and injure themselves. What you may not realize, however, is that a fall can have dramatic consequences. Three million seniors are treated by emergency services every year due to injuries sustained from a fall. More than 9 in 10 hip fractures are the - [PREPARING FOR RETIREMENT: The Ultimate Guide](https://www.agingabundantly.com/preparing-for-retirement/) - Preparing for retirement is an important step to take to help us ease into and enjoy our leisure years. Exercise and a healthy diet are at the top of your list, and that's great! But, what other steps can you take to be ready to enjoy your retirement years? Here are a few steps you - [Simplifying and Downsizing May Just Be Contagious!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/beware-simplifying-and-downsizing-may-be-contagious/) - The day before my youngest son got married, his older brother announced that he and his family were moving back to NC. He'd got a new job. We were thrilled. I missed having he and his brother close to home and the 1,000 miles between us grew enormous once baby Emmett was born. For all - [Accepting the Unresolved In Your Life](https://www.agingabundantly.com/be-patient/) - "Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves… Do not seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, - [A RENDEVOUS WITH DESTINY: The U.S. Election](https://www.agingabundantly.com/election-2016-a-rendezvous-with-destiny/) - We are coming face to face with our history and our destiny. This morning I attempted to put thoughts about the election into words. This is a turning point for us as a nation. I feel it. I sense it. I pray we chose the light. Here's what I wrote on Facebook: My first election - [HOW TO MANAGE FEAR & ANGER POST ELECTION](https://www.agingabundantly.com/manage-fear/) - Panic, fear and anger are very normal responses to what has taken place over the last week (and months). Many of us feel threatened and angered by all that is happening. We are in hyper-reactivity mode and our emotions have been propelling us forward. Everywhere people are saying and doing things they would not ordinarily - [Truth ~ What Are We Fighting For?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-is-truth/) - The value of truth seems to have lost its influence. The world keeps turning. I get up in the morning to the sun, and go to bed each night with the moon and the stars shining their light on my broken heart. The world is a "hot mess" as my young millennial friends would say. - [Start With Suffering, Then Turn the Page](https://www.agingabundantly.com/suffering-turn-page/) - Suffering...when we're in it, we think it will never end. The truth is, it is the jumping off point. Suffering kicks us in the butt and we choose to turn the page. We hurt. It's uncomfortable, so we look for ways to relieve our suffering. We look for fixes. Some are dead ends. Others lead - [INTENTION - What Will You Create?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/intention-what-will-you-create/) - “Every journey begins with the first step of articulating the intention, and then becoming the intention.” Bryant McGill, author of Voice of Reason Intention is like going into a grocery store. Every time we step through the door we are greeted with shelves full of opportunity for enhanced health. And, just as many opportunities - [How to Create Conscious Intention](https://www.agingabundantly.com/conscious-intention/) - Do you remember the last time you made a declaration of intention not to do something? I sure do! In fact, a perfect example leaps to mind. Scott, (my husband), loves sardines. He introduced them to my sons when they were teenagers and they shocked me by actually trying them. (He's always had more persuasive - [Bullies & Narcissists - Characteristics](https://www.agingabundantly.com/bullies-narcissists-characteristics/) - Before I begin my topic of bullies and narcissists, I'd like to apologize to any of you who tried to visit The Aging Abundantly Community website over the last six weeks. It seems gremlins weaseled their way into the technical workings of the site and mucked things up really good. It so happens this problem - [HELP YOUR HOME to HELP YOUR MENTAL HEALTH](https://www.agingabundantly.com/help-your-home-to-help-your-mental-health/) - We all want to escape when we get home, don’t we? We’ve heard the promise of houses as sanctuaries, and we’ve always looked for a space which offers the same. You may even decorate with your well being in mind, and introduce plants because you heard it would help. But, despite your best efforts, - [FEAR. How to Uncover this Powerful Emotion and Not Let it Control You](https://www.agingabundantly.com/i-am-afraid-fear-keeps-us-stuck/) - YES, I AM AFRAID. OFTEN. FEAR - It arises in all of us. Then it drifts away and we forget, until it returns again. Whether it's the threat of a hurricane or flooding, forest fire or political mayhem, a serious illness or the loss of a spouse, this emotion is part of life. For many, - [GETTING UNSTUCK -- How to Get a Handle on What Is Holding You Back](https://www.agingabundantly.com/getting-unstuck-resistance-to-change/) - Freeing ourselves from troublesome situations or behaviors is a skill not everyone possesses. We all experience times when things just don't feel right and we are uncertain of what it is we need to change. At other times we know exactly what to do differently but we can't find a way to break our resistance - [FEELINGS JUST ARE - Manage Your Thoughts, But Allow Your Feelings](https://www.agingabundantly.com/manage-thoughts-not-feelings/) - Feelings just are. I think I spent most of my life trying to manage my feelings. Born a HSP (highly sensitive person) and an empath, my world was a giant stew of sensory perceptions. If I had a brain, I didn't have control of it, that's for sure. My senses ran my life. My parents - [Are You Ready For Retirement?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/are-you-ready-for-retirement/) - You may have stepped away from the 9 to 5 already or are considering hanging up your office pass. Either way, full-time work is no longer the priority in life it once was and you’re glad of it. But are you ready for retirement and to stop working completely? In this blog, we take a - [4 Great Hobbies to Take up As You Get Older](https://www.agingabundantly.com/hobbies-for-retirement/) - Many people look forward to their retirement. This is, of course, understandable. After working for many years, the opportunity to relax and do the things we've put off for lack of time, is very appealing. We imagine kicking back, lingering over our coffee and being free of external demands. We envision doing things we love - [Tired of Family Drama? Here's How to Deal With It](https://www.agingabundantly.com/family-drama-and-how-to-deal-with-it/) - Family Drama is something few of us escape. As time goes by and our families grow, it can happen more often. In-laws of all varieties combined with different upbringings and personalities can lead to disagreements and upsetting arguments. Even when you're not personally involved, it's common to feel pressured to pick a side or to - [MATURITY MATTERS: 3 Unusual Business Ideas for the Over 60's](https://www.agingabundantly.com/maturity-matters-3-unusual-business-ideas-for-the-over-60s/) - Some people are planning their retirement when they reach their 60's. However, for many, the thought of not working is one they simply don't consider. In fact, instead of retiring from work, they use this phase in their life, and the maturity and experience they have gained, to start their own business. Of course, there - [Nurturing Your Body and Mind: 4 Tips to Implement This Winter](https://www.agingabundantly.com/nurturing-your-body-and-mind-4-tips-to-implement-this-winter/) - Nurturing your body and mind has never been as crucial as it is today. Indeed, we have all gone through extremely challenging times in the past months. Scientific evidence is showing the effects of the pandemic and lockdown on our health, both mental and physical. However, during summer, it was at least possible to enjoy - [Finding Courage in Adversity](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-courage-in-adversity/) - I think of my father more often these days. At sixty-six, like his father before him, he had a stroke and lost the use of the right side of his body. At the time I was only twenty-five, and while I admired the determination and perseverance he displayed throughout his recovery. I could not fully - [Laughter ~ Balm for the Soul](https://www.agingabundantly.com/laughter-balm-for-the-soul/) - You don't stop laughing because you grow old. You grow old because you stop laughing. ~ Michael Pritchard ~~~ What would life be like without laughter? One of the many gifts of aging is acquiring the ability to take ourselves a bit less seriously. While some people are just born with the ability to laugh many are not. - [ADJUSTMENTS TO YOUR HOME for Comfort & Safety](https://www.agingabundantly.com/adjustments-to-your-home/) - We’ve all spent a whole lot more time in our own homes over the past year. It's given us time to think about making adjustments to our home. People have been working from home, educating their kids from home and spending all of their free time at home. Many have only left the house to - [The Willingness to Face Our Pain](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-willingness-to-face-our-pain/) - "Retreating into yourself to find purpose can be like straddling a dock and a boat that is moving away. We are pulled in opposite directions by the intense desire of the mind for human involvement and the equally intense need of the soul for its own company. In the sheer immensity of solitude, when - [Aging Abundantly Book Club Selection](https://www.agingabundantly.com/aging-abundantly-book-club-selection/) - This month's selection for the Aging Abundantly Book Club is a recent favorite of mine. I Will Not Live An Unlived Life: Reclaiming Passion and Purpose by Dawna Markova is at it's heart poetic. Packed with images, metaphors and enough symbolic language to keep me giddy for weeks, it is a book to savor. It reminds - [Accepting Our Body at Every Age](https://www.agingabundantly.com/do-you-hate-your-body/) - Accepting our body, and all of its imperfections, is no easy feat. This is especially true in a culture that reveres the young and extraordinarily tall and thin! A friend shared an article on Facebook entitled: We Hate Our Bodies, and It's Not Our Fault. How could I not read it after all the conversations - [Simplify Your Life](https://www.agingabundantly.com/simplify-your-life/) - Windows to Wisdom: "Simplify your life. Make room wherever and whenever you can for new ideas, new experiences, new friends, and new experiences." SIMPLIFYING is something many of us think more about with each passing year. Have you ever asked yourself, "What do I really need to be happy?" Most of us live wrapped in a cocoon - [Listen to the Silence](https://www.agingabundantly.com/listen-to-the-silence/) - SILENCE & THE HEAT PUMP We've lived in the south for close to twenty years and while it's not uncommon for us to turn on the air conditioning when it's snowing in other parts of the country, the heat has been running non-stop. That is until our heat pump decided it was tired and quit. The - [WHAT BELIEFS ARE DRIVING YOU?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-beliefs-are-driving-you/) - Our beliefs shape our lives. One belief, wrongly held, can cast a shadow over one's entire life. What do you believe? Do you know what's driving you? Over the last decade in my work with women over fifty, I have heard said countless times, "I don't feel that way anymore", and "I don't worry about - [Fighting Depression](https://www.agingabundantly.com/fighting-depression/) - Fighting depression is a battle many fight every day, and it is one that is too often fought alone. While to the individual suffering from depression may not feel certain whether or not their experience is depression, a great deal of research has been done, statistics collected and diagnostic criteria assembled. A therapist or physician - [Not Doing](https://www.agingabundantly.com/not-doing/) - We are, too often, miserable when we are not doing. In our increasingly fast- paced world there is little incentive to not-do. No wonder old age terrifies us! We can't imagine "not doing"! We are so programmed to do, do, do. There's nothing inherently wrong with doing. It feels good to be productive. A problem - [BOOMERS AGING ABUNDANTLY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/boomers-aging-abundantly/) - DO YOU THINK IT'S TIME TO RETIRE THIS PICTURE? BOOMERS AGING WELL I've been struggling for a while now to figure out what direction to head with Aging Abundantly. A decade has passed since I ventured into my own midlife chaos along with a generation of women who knew that somehow their aging process had - [Mothers Letting Go](https://www.agingabundantly.com/mothers-letting-go/) - Many of us are in the phase of letting go. One of the first and most difficult we face is that of letting go of our role as mothers. We understand that we must allow our children to be independent and make their own decisions, but this conflicts with the powerful urge to protect, guide - [OUR THOUGHTS, OUR CHOICE - Doing "The Work"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/our-thoughts-our-choice/) - "The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another." William James We can be fooled by our thoughts. For example, it's Monday, but it doesn't feel like Monday. It feels like Tuesday or Wednesday. Due to the inconvenience of a stomach virus, I lost a few days last week and worked - [FINDING HER HERE, by Jane Relaford Brown - A Poem on Aging](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-her-here-poem-on-aging/) - A ran across this poem - Finding Her Here - the other day and wanted to share it with you. It sums up so beautifully what so many of us are experiencing as we accumulate years. I hope you enjoy it! DS FINDING HER HERE by Jayne Relaford Brown I am becoming the woman I’ve wanted, grey - [THE GRAMMYS 2016 and ROLLING IN THE DEEP](https://www.agingabundantly.com/grammys-2016-rolling-in-the-deep/) - I tried to watch the Grammys last night. I was hopeful. I like all kinds of music and there are many young up and comings that I listen to on a regular basis. My youngest son keeps me in the loop. He lives in Kansas City which you may or may not know has a happening - [Be Useful - What Do You Do Best - What Are Your Gifts?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/be-useful/) - I never felt like I knew how to be useful as a child. My skills were limited. The youngest of five, my siblings had little use for me and more often than not I was a burden not an aid. They were useful! They taught me things. My sister taught me how to fix my hair, - [Navigating Family Drama - Crazy Relatives and Jousting Fests](https://www.agingabundantly.com/navigating-family-drama/) - Family drama shows up in everyone's life at one time or another. Who doesn't have at least one relative that drives them slap crazy? I know I sure do! In fact, there was a time when there were more family members who agitated me, than those who didn't! Going to family gatherings was like trying to take - [ENERGY - WAKE UP WITH MORE OF IT - Create A Happiness List!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/energy-wake-up-with-more/) - This morning I woke up with zero energy. I was tired and draggy. Too much something or other in my diet, or too much gardening precipitated by the nice weather. Either way, my body felt like lead and my mind like slogging through mud. I poured a cup of coffee and sat down to read my email. My plan for the - [LET'S TALK TUESDAY: EXPECTATIONS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/expectations/) - Our expectations shape how we view and experience life. Some expectations lie outside our conscious awareness, and our dreams draw in part upon these hidden expectations. Dreams are a necessary and valuable part of life but unearthing the hidden thoughts within them can improve our relationships and our quality of life and help us understand - [I Love the Sea - A Reflection](https://www.agingabundantly.com/i-love-the-sea/) - I love the sea. My restless soul tells me it's time to step into the wide open spaces, water and sunshine. It's time to pay a visit to my friend, the sea. I know some don't care for sand in their shoes or squishing up between their toes. It is true that sand doesn't mix - [Mindfulness Mantles by Kay Moates](https://www.agingabundantly.com/mindfulness-mantles/) - Kay Moates’ artistry is not about Kay and yet she is the essential ingredient in the making of her mindfulness mantles. Every stitch she takes is done in a state of mindfulness, her art is her meditation practice, and her very personal practice a very personal gift to her patrons. Kay, the artist and the - [There's No Such Thing As A Perfect Marriage](https://www.agingabundantly.com/perfect-marriage/) - RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES PERFECTION IS MAKE BELIEVE Perfection is a construct, an elusive creation of our imagination. What we imagine as a perfect relationship is largely driven by our underlying beliefs. These beliefs, formed in early childhood, silently play a part in all of our relationships. Our position in the family, the way our parents - [We All Need Support](https://www.agingabundantly.com/we-all-need-support/) - It took far longer than I would like it to have taken, for me to understand what real "support" looks like. I'm a rebellious sort, by nature or nurture it's hard to say, and I have never liked people telling me what to do, think, or say. It's one of the primary reasons I did not pursue - [Holistic Detoxification Process w/ Crystal Honeycutt](https://www.agingabundantly.com/detox-a-perspective-from-crystal/) - Last week I asked Crystal if she would be willing to write a few words about the detox and wellness program I'm following from her viewpoint as an expert. She went above and beyond and created this great video. I know you'll enjoy it! If you have any questions, feel free to leave them in a comment - [Along the Path of Healing](https://www.agingabundantly.com/along-the-path-of-healing/) - I’m settling into life with my new food choices. As time goes on, what I eat has become less and less a part of my waking thoughts, and more just something I do at certain times of day. I have not allowed myself to “cheat” because it is in those gray areas that I know - [Developing Resiliency](https://www.agingabundantly.com/developing-resiliency/) - It's hard to believe it's been a week since I last wrote here. Time flies when you're feeling good, and I'm feeling great! I didn't think I could ever feel "young" again. I not only feel younger than a did four weeks ago, I feel better than I ever have in a body/mind/spirit. It's been a hard-fought - [Down the Rabbit Hole](https://www.agingabundantly.com/down-the-rabbit-hole/) - Last week I fell down the rabbit hole. I've been working my out ever since. I wrote a blog post toward the end of the week and lost it! I don't know about you, but sometimes my computer has a mind of its own and decides that what I've written doesn't need to be read. - [Finding Your Inner Guide](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-your-inner-guide/) - Many of us, particularly those of us who are members of the "scar clan", the walking wounded, have an unhealthy tendency to minimize our accomplishments. We look around us and see only those people who excel, who have accomplished what we have accomplished and more. As our access and, perhaps more precisely, our exposure to what’s - [Still Learning](https://www.agingabundantly.com/still-learning/) - When I stop and close my eyes and breathe in what peace I can find around me...in the breezes that blow, the hum of the chime as the air lifts it in song...I find fear when I want desperately to find comfort. It is a hard journey finding my way out of fear. It nips - [My Unfolding](https://www.agingabundantly.com/my-unfolding/) - The unfolding of consciousness sometimes feels like a runaway freight train...and I'm just hanging on for dear life. Ah, but what a ride! My only regret is that I got on board so late in life. On the other hand, my life's path that led me to this point carries with it an experiential awareness - [In Search of My Edges](https://www.agingabundantly.com/in-search-of-my-edges/) - I'm trying to find my edges. The perfect unfolding of a new beginning, a new drama that is directed only by me. As daft an attempt as this might be, it quickens my spirit and draws me forward. The edges of me, the beginnings, the ends, the boundaries of my soul lend shape and substance - [Banish the Darkness](https://www.agingabundantly.com/banish-the-darkness/) - I've come to see that when darkness resides in our soul it's because we dare not look in the corners and crevices that contain our pain. We fear the darkness when we could choose to shine a light to banish it. A self-protective mechanism no doubt. Still.... In recent years, I've more often chosen to shine - [IMAGINATION AND HEALING: "One More Hour of Peace"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/imagination-healing-one-more-hour-of-peace/) - We don't often think of imagination and healing at the same time. But our imagination can be a powerful ally on our behalf when we learn how to use it. I awoke this morning feeling anything but peace. Still on the mend after dental work last week, I reluctantly crawled out of bed. The gloomy - [BACKWARDS THINKING](https://www.agingabundantly.com/backwards-thinking/) - We live in a world that encourages backwards thinking. Trained to use our rational minds and to look outside ourselves for direction, we ignore the guidance of our body. The sun streamed through the kitchen window this morning. The warm inviting tendrils wrapped themselves around me like a lost lover. The relief I felt, the - [Manifest Me - One Year Later](https://www.agingabundantly.com/manifest-me-one-year-later/) - I began my Manifest Me blog a little over a year ago. It's hard for me to fathom how far a person can travel on the inner journey in such a short period of time. When going through change and upheaval the passing of time seems interminable. The thing I've noticed over the years, however, - [The Masks We Wear](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-masks-we-wear/) - Moments come along every minute of the day when we get to choose whether or not we will be real or wear one of our masks. In fact, much of the time we may even think we are being real but we're really play acting. ROLE PLAYING STARTS EARLY Putting on a mask, pretending to - [A WHOLISTIC GUIDE TO HEALING DEPRESSION](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-wholistic-guide-to-healing-depression/) - While depression can move into your life and turn it upside down, healing depression is possible. Every day I read stories and see statistics on the psychological impact of Covid, and depression is on the rise as a result. I know depression, inside and out. It can creep up on you, almost unnoticed and lay - [WRITING UP A STORM by Celia Leaman](https://www.agingabundantly.com/writing-up-a-storm/) - Celia Leaman, the author of Writing Up a Storm, is not only a prolific fiction writer but a skilled instructor of the craft of writing. She was one of my first and best writing instructors at Writers Online Workshop from Writer's Digest and has become a dear friend. Celia is a kind and compassionate teacher - [When You Want to Make a Difference](https://www.agingabundantly.com/when-you-want-to-make-a-difference/) - The older we get the more compelled many of us feel to make a difference in the world we live in. Once I finished the bulk of the whirlwind years of child rearing I was ready to embark on a different sort of adventure. In time I zeroed in on those things that are most important to - [Are You a Writer or Want to Be?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/are-you-a-writer-or-want-to-be/) - I have had a passion for writing for as long as I can remember. I think I wrote my first poem when I was four or five. I really got intense about writing poetry during my high school years, when I first became acquainted with angst. I rarely shared it with anyone as I had - [Bloggers/Writers](https://www.agingabundantly.com/support-for-writers/) - No matter where you are in your journey as a writer, we can help. Here are some of our services: Coaching Support Editing Book Reviews Finding Your Voice Blog Set Up & Design Social Media Support Contact Dorothy Sander via email AgingAbundantly@gmail.com. Please put "Writing Support" in the subject line and in the email include - [2014 Work in Progress Blog Tour](https://www.agingabundantly.com/late-blooming-writers-in-action-2014-work-in-progress-blog-tour/) - A blog tour is a great way to see what your fellow writers are up to. I was inducted (abducted, lassoed, hoodwinked, invoked, sideswiped, challenged, and above all honored) by my blogging friend and ever present source of inspiration, Laurie Buchanan, into the 2014 Work in Progress (WIP) Blog Tour. Of course I was humbled - [The Benefits of Blogging for the Late Blooming Writer](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-benefits-of-blogging-for-the-late-blooming-writer/) - , The benefits of blogging cannot be exaggerated. Blogging is the perfect tool for new writers over fifty. I didn't begin to get serious about writing until I was in my early fifties. While I was very comfortable with computers, I didn't know a thing about blogs or blogging. Blogs were fashionable among young people - [Cool Tools for Late Blooming Writers](https://www.agingabundantly.com/cool-tools-for-late-blooming-writers/) - There are so many tools available that help late blooming writers become faster, more efficient writers. Some days when I sit down to write, I think I would be more productive if I went back to using an old-fashioned typewriter. There are so many distractions, so many choices, so much speed to everything! Then I - [Making A Decision](https://www.agingabundantly.com/making-a-decision/) - Do you remember being warned as a teen or young adult to think twice before doing something? I know I do. And, as parents we probably do the same with our children. We caution them as we were cautioned and suggest they look before they leap. Experience taught our parents, as it taught us, that - [INTERLUDE: WHAT IS NEXT?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/interlude-what-is-next/) - TIME FOR AN INTERLUDE in the Voices of Wisdom Series I hope you have been enjoying the The Voices of Wisdom Series! I know I have been enjoying reading and sharing the stories of these courageous and magnificent women and I'm so grateful to them for taking the time to share a slice of their lives - [WRITING FOR CONNECTION - #WednesdayWisdom #AshWednesday](https://www.agingabundantly.com/writing-connection-wednesdaywisdom-ashwednesday/) - Today, I need to write, to lay out in words on a page the cacophony that has taken up residence within me. Not writing too often leads me to bouts of irritability, depression or sleepless nights. I used to write in a journal every night before I went to bed. That was years ago, before kids, - [MANAGING LIFE'S SURPRISES by Christy Steiger](https://www.agingabundantly.com/managing-lifes-surprises/) - Managing life's surprises is possible with just a little forethought. I am a planner and a list-maker. Both help me organize my day to day life. I plan my vacations weeks ahead of time, and I wait till shoes go on sale before buying mine. I like making gifts and do my own house decorating - [CHAIR YOGA & ADVENTURES in EXERCISING by Judy Rader](https://www.agingabundantly.com/chair-yoga-adventures-in-exercising-by-judy-rader/) - Recently, a friend invited me to a chair yoga class. Yes, you read that correctly, CHAIR yoga. My first question was how in the heck do you twist yourself into a pretzel while in a chair? My friend laughed and replied, “You will love it! It’s a great way to stretch your hip-flexor muscles and - [The Challenges of Becoming My Husband's Caregiver](https://www.agingabundantly.com/husbands-caregiver/) - I'm delighted to introduce Aging Abundantly Community member, Camilla Lawson, as today's guest contributor. Camilla has been an inspiration to those of us who have walked this path beside her as she learned to become her husband's caregiver. Each hurdle and setback she faced was met with fierce determination,and the desire to learn and overcome, - [PREVENT FALLS - ANKLE & FOOT STABILITY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/prevent-falls-ankle-foot-stability/) - RISK OF FALLS Research shows that approximately one-third of all people over the age of 65 fall at least once a year. Heck, I tripped and fell just last week, and rumor has it Christy did too! So I guess they're right! The two most common causes of falls are poor balance and medications. I'd - [GRIEF: Living Moment to Moment by Laura Siegel](https://www.agingabundantly.com/grief-living-moment-to-moment-by-laura-siegel/) - Laura Siegel, an invaluable member of The Aging Abundantly Community, has graciously offered to share some of her thoughts and experiences regarding the grieving process. Loss is something we all have, or will face. and Laura brings insight and compassion to this important conversation. I invite you to share your thoughts and/or experiences with Laura in - [TRAVEL ADVENTURE: NIGHT FLIGHT by Christy Steiger](https://www.agingabundantly.com/travel-adventure-night-flight/) - When I booked my evening, no-stops flight from Chicago to Seattle, I was happy with the cheap fare. It was my first night flight. I assumed that everyone would be tired and quiet. So, I grabbed a window seat and settled in for a quiet, relaxing flight. The view at take-off was stunning: Chicago and - [The Common Causes Of Premature Aging](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-common-causes-of-premature-aging/) - No one wants to get old, but it is unfortunately unavoidable. Most people worry about aging because it will mean losing their youthful looks. Being visibly old feels like a failure in our culture, even though we all will sooner or later. It is true that we cannot avoid the aging process, but what we - [AVOIDING BURNOUT AS A CAREGIVER](https://www.agingabundantly.com/avoiding-burnout-as-a-caregiver/) - Avoiding burnout as a caregiver is a necessary, but challenging undertaking. It is an unfortunate truth that many caregivers find themselves in a state of emotional and physical exhaustion at some point in the process. Caregiving is an extremely demanding job. Most caregivers have insufficient support and are the primary care provider for a loved - [WHERE TO FIND THE HELP YOU MIGHT NEED AS A CARER](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-support-as-a-carer/) - When you take on the role of carer for a loved one, it’s important to do your research so as to not be surprised by the amount of work that it takes. But even when one does look at all the angles, it's hard to really understand the challenges you will face until you face - [Make Your Later Years More Comfortable With These Hacks](https://www.agingabundantly.com/make-later-years-comfortable/) - Growing old can be a scary idea for a lot of people, but there is plenty you can do to help with this, and it’s important to make sure you make the most of this. There are a lot of elements that you need to make the most of when it comes to improving this - [3 Cornerstones of a Wellness Focused Daily Routine](https://www.agingabundantly.com/wellness-focused-daily-routine/) - A daily routine that includes personal well-being practices is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Of course, actually finding ways to incorporate these practices often seems much easier said than done. When we allow daily interferences to interfere with our daily routine, frustration undermines our sense of balance and harmony. - [HOW TO DEVELOP ACCEPTANCE AS A WAY OF LIFE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/how-to-develop-acceptance/) - Acceptance doesn't always come naturally. It is, however, a skill one can learn and practice, and doing so can make all the difference in how happy we are and our enjoyment of life. Getting older is a fact of life. It is also a fact that t is hard for some of us to accept - [Change Your Life by Changing Your Thoughts](https://www.agingabundantly.com/change-your-thoughts-change-your-life/) - You want to change your life. Most of us do to some degree or another, but we also feel at a disadvantage in one way or another. We try. We do the best we can to improve our lot, but still struggle to bring the desired results. Happiness evades us. We know about exercise and - [How to Support a Friend Dealing with Grief](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-friend-delaing-with-grief/) - Do you have a friend or loved one who is dealing with grief? You probably want to help but aren't sure what to say or do. The best thing we can do to support someone who is grieving is just be there. Our presence alone is an enormous comfort. Offer them a shoulder to lean - [UNLOCK YOUR HEALTH & WELLNESS POTENTIAL](https://www.agingabundantly.com/health-and-wellness-potential/) - The term 'wellness' is thrown around a lot these days, but what does it really mean? Simply put, wellness means the ability to live your life in the best way possible for you. This includes feeling good about yourself and how you are living your life. Unlocking your health and wellness potential must include strong - [How To Restart Self-Care](https://www.agingabundantly.com/restart-self-care/) - With the holidays behind us, now is the perfect time to restart self-care routines. It is all too easy in our busy, modern world to fall behind on the daily routines we carve out for taking care of ourselves. The extra stress of Covid, taking care of our loved ones, keeping up with our jobs - [4 Tips on Creating More Personal Comfort After Retirement](https://www.agingabundantly.com/after-retirement/) - After retirement, many people feel lost and without a sense of purpose. This can lead to a lack of personal comfort, which can adversely affect one's health and wellbeing. The following four tips for creating more personal comfort after retirement are based on research conducted by experts in the field. These simple, yet powerful tips, - [Elderly Citizens Benefit from Daily Support](https://www.agingabundantly.com/benefits-of-daily-support-for-elderly/) - Research shows that daily support can improve the health and well-being of the elderly. Whether you are in your senior years, or you are caring for someone who is, consider the following benefits. 1) Mental health benefits Older adults who struggle with mental health issues often benefit from a strong support support system. Seniors who - [How To Provide Support For Elderly Parents](https://www.agingabundantly.com/caring-for-elderly-parents/) - The need to provide support for elderly parents falls to many adult children. If time permits, think about how you want to be involved in their care. How much time and energy are you willing to put forth? As our parent's age, they may need some support to maintain their lifestyle and independence. It can - [How To Choose The Right Nursing Home](https://www.agingabundantly.com/choosing-the-right-nursing-home/) - Deciding to place a loved one in a nursing home is never easy. Knowing where to start or even what questions to ask can be difficult. 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Things can get very complicated in a hurry and the longer one is married the - [10 Common Types Of Lawyers And When You May Need Them](https://www.agingabundantly.com/10-common-types-of-lawyers-and-when-you-may-need-them/) - When you need legal advice, it is crucial to choose a type of lawyer who is well-versed in the field of law that pertains to your case. Not all attorneys specialize in all areas. Common Types Of Lawyers And When to Call Them: 1. Business Lawyer A business lawyer specializes in the handling legal matters - [10 Ways to Keep Finances Under Control In Retirement](https://www.agingabundantly.com/keep-finances-under-control-in-retirement/) - Retirement brings with it many changes. Some are positive. But, dealing with a significant reduction in income can make it difficult to keep finances under control. Adding to the challenges, pensions and 401k plans don't seem as valuable as they once did. Inflation means that our money simply doesn’t go as far as it once - [CROCHET FOR CHARITY - Donate Your Handiwork and Make a Difference](https://www.agingabundantly.com/crochet-for-charity-donate-your-handiwork-and-make-a-difference/) - For years I've wanted to crochet for charity. I have never gotten to it. Perhaps, just perhaps, now is the time! Charity work honestly probably does more for the giver than the receiver. I believe, however, that it is the interchange as a whole that improves life for everyone. When we give from our heart - [What Kind of Tree are You?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-kind-of-tree-are-you/) - Trees are like people. They are all different but each has its own purpose. Some provide shelter and comfort, others offer strength and encouragement. Just as we appreciate trees differently, we can appreciate each person for their uniqueness and what they have to give. Understanding and accepting our own gifts can help us see more readily the gifts that others possess. - [Gratitude is Essential to Aging Abundantly](https://www.agingabundantly.com/gratitude-is-essential-to-aging-abundantly/) - I have been writing about compassion fatigue and will continue to do so next week. I think it is a very important topic for women to think about and discuss as we age. I want to take a break today and add this blog about gratitude, partly because this holiday weekend is an opportune time - [Remembering those who Sacrificed their Lives for Us](https://www.agingabundantly.com/remembering-tthose-who-sacrificed-their-lives-for-us/) - Operation Iraqi Freedom 4,384 Casualties and counting Operation Enduring Freedom 1,097 Casualties and counting The Gulf War 1,963 Casualties Vietnam War 58,261 Casualties Revolutionary War 25,700 Casualties Korean War 36,574 Casualties World War I 116,516 Casualties World War II 405,399 Casualties The complete list of names This does not include all of those who lost - [Remembering My City of Ruins](https://www.agingabundantly.com/remembering-my-city-of-ruins/) - It’s hard to fathom that it has been nine years since that fateful September morning in 2001. My experience of those moments had a profound and lasting impact on me as it has on so many others. It has not been easy to make sense of it all and I imagine it will be some - [Though I May Never Know Your Name](https://www.agingabundantly.com/though-i-may-never-know-your-name/) - My psyche, or perhaps more accurately my spirit is bereft and cluttered with the shattered glass and twisted metal that now lies far behind us in a desolate junk yard… small bits embedded in my skin a constant reminder. The sun now spreads glorious warmth across my shoulders as I sit on my back deck - [Sisterhood ~ A Woman's Strength](https://www.agingabundantly.com/compassionate-sisters-mothers-friends/) - In the last couple of days a comforting image has come to mind on more than one occasion. The car accident my husband and I were in ten days ago shook us to the core. Though we weren’t seriously injured, rolling over four times did a little more than addle our brains. We are recovering - [What to Think When Bad Things Happen](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-to-think-when-bad-things-happen/) - I have to admit that I love the irreverent phrase "sh*! happens" because too often in life there is just no explanation for the obstacles we face. The first time I heard the expression I laughed, a bit uncomfortably no doubt. I don’t even remember the context. Like all comedy there is an element of - ["Always Be Pure, Simple and Honest"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/always-be-pure-simple-and-honest/) - I just opened up a bag of Yogi tea so I might have something hot to sip on this cool, fall afternoon. I adore herbal tea, more for the medicinal value than the taste. When I sip a new odd mixture of steeped leaves for the first time, any slightly unpleasant taste makes me feel - [Quiet ~ Just a Small Dose Can Make a Difference](https://www.agingabundantly.com/quiet-just-a-small-dose-can-make-a-difference/) - It is so easy to wander away from our dreams. Everywhere we go, there are enticing diversions calling for our attention. I can’t help but wonder why it is so difficult to stay focused on what we know is good and right and true…for ourselves. Perhaps it’s the result of a lifetime of living up - ["Symptoms of Inner Peace"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/symptoms-of-inner-peace/) - Sometimes, particularly when life seems full of challenges, we become so focused on what we've yet to achieve both in our personal growth and in our life accomplishments, that we forget to acknowledge or even take the time to consider what already has come to pass by effort or circumstance. Last week I wrote about - [Think Time](https://www.agingabundantly.com/think-time/) - Today is one of those wonderful rainy days that invite rest and reflection. For the half-cup empty kind person like myself, such a day is a rare occurrence and one to be embraced. On occasion, a rainy day and I co-exist happily together, feeding on our similar contemplative, brooding natures and snuggling under the covers of - [Living From Our Heart](https://www.agingabundantly.com/living-from-our-heart/) - “My flame burns brightly. I live in integrity with myself and my God. I am not the sum of what you think of me. I am who I was created to - [Health News ~ Are We Taking too Many Prescription and Non-Prescription Drugs?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/health-news-are-we-taking-to-many-prescription-and-non-prescription-drugs/) - As women over fifty, it is often difficult to discern truth from fiction when it comes to treating our physical concerns. Which aches and pains should we do something about? Which discomforts come with age and which should we consult on with a physician? Should we be taking the medications we are taking? Should we - [What Does Abundance Mean to You?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-is-your-abundance/) - What signifies abundance is unique for each individual. It depends on circumstances, frame of mind, our history, our openness to receiving and so much more. This was brought home to me last week when I participated in a guided imagery session. It was a very interesting meditation! As we relaxed and breathed deeply, we were - [Let Go and Let Love](https://www.agingabundantly.com/let-go-and-let-love/) - Simple words. Not always a simple matter. Letting go. It's the hardest thing in the world to do. We seem to have been born to want to change things, to improve them, make them better. We are driven to fix the broken within ourselves and within others. We can conceive of perfection and so - [Common Mistakes You Need To Avoid When Hiring A Caregiver](https://www.agingabundantly.com/hiring-a-caregiver-common-mistakes/) - Hiring a caregiver can be the perfect next step in maintaining your independence. An extra pair of hand can make all the difference in one's quality of life. It is therefore wise to begin to think about your options as far in advance as possible. One of those options is when is the right time - [Dealing With Anxious Thoughts That Interrupt Your Day](https://www.agingabundantly.com/dealing-with-anxious-thoughts/) - Anxious thoughts seem to plague many, many people these days. Pretty much everyone has worrisome thoughts from time to time. After all, life is complicated! Some will suffer more than others. What one person might see as a minor inconvenience, another might react much more strongly, whereby strong emotions and anxious thoughts stay with them - [MAKING PEACE WITH THE DAY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/making-peace-with-my-today/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt USD835301465 ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. "Making Peace with My Today Will Improve My Future… It may sound odd, but the fastest way to get - [4 SIMPLE WAYS TO RELIEVE STRESS AT HOME](https://www.agingabundantly.com/4-simple-ways-to-relieve-stress-at-home/) - Do you feel as though you are more stressed than you should be and searching for ways to relieve stress? Stress has a way of creeping up on us. Perhaps you feel like you just can’t get on top of things or you're struggling to get the rest your body requires. However you're experiencing stress, - [WHEN A FALSE BELIEF KEEPS YOU STUCK](https://www.agingabundantly.com/when-a-false-belief-keeps-you-stuck/) - A false belief, or thinking something is true when it is not, can keep us frustrated, stuck and struggling to move forward. This can happen with small misconceptions, or with major areas of our lives. A couple of weeks ago, I bought a new mattress from Costco. My husband can no longer help me do - [4 HEALTHY WAYS TO ACCEPT AGING](https://www.agingabundantly.com/accept-aging/) - It isn't easy to accept aging and the changes it brings when wherever you go you see articles and ads about how to look younger. It's more common than not to dread wrinkles and sagging but it's really important to take a look at what's really important. Aging gracefully isn't about trying to look like - ["SOMEDAY" IS TODAY with Sunny Lockwood](https://www.agingabundantly.com/someday-today-al-sunny-lockwood/) - "Someday" begins with a day just like today. No one knows this better than Sunny Lockwood. This morning I''m happy to introduce you to Sunny in The Voices of Wisdom series. Sunny reached out to me and said she thought Aging Abundantly readers might be interested in her story. I agreed! I hope it is as much of an inspiration to you - [Our Spiritual Nature](https://www.agingabundantly.com/our-spiritual-nature/) - My nights of late have been filled with dreams of struggle. Arguments, unease, confusion. I am going through a deep change. I can feel it happening in many areas of my life and my dreams seem to be reflecting the movement. What's different this time is that some of the dreams are violent. I don't recall - [UNRAVELING TO AWAKEN AUTHENTICITY](https://www.agingabundantly.com/unraveling-our-external-selves/) - "Unraveling external selves and coming home to our real identity is the true meaning of soul work." Sue Monk Kidd Unraveling to awaken authenticity is an important task for the aging woman. Yes, there is much to be done in the unraveling department, but we are uniquely ready. Fortunately, when true unraveling begins, one quickly - [THE WOUNDS OF CHILDHOOD](https://www.agingabundantly.com/childhood-wounds/) - The wounds of childhood run deep. They run broad and wide and are left to fester when the light of understanding, compassion, acknowledgement, and love are nonexistent. In the immediate aftermath of injury, tears may be shed, cries and protests may erupt, but childhood wounds are often covered up with ignorance, indifference or cruelty. The - [THE BENEFITS OF AGING AND THE HEALING PROCESS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/benefits-of-aging/) - We speak too little of the benefits of aging. But I've discovered in the second half of life, that each year we live we have an opportunity to resolve our issues and find inner peace. By the time we reach the half century mark we've had enough experience to see patterns emerge. These patterns are - [ARE YOU STILL PRETENDING TO BE A YOUNGER VERSION OF YOURSELF?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/are-you-still-pretending-you-are-a-younger-version-of-yourself/) - Are you pretending to be a younger version of you? I know that's a really loaded question! But, an important one. We live in a youth obsessed culture. We are enamored with being young, beautiful and physically fit. There's so much more to life! I shared a few of my thoughts in a recent article - [DINE IN THIS VALENTINE'S DAY & REKINDLE THE ROMANCE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/dine-in-on-valentines-day/) - If you don't know already, here's the dirty little secret about Valentine's Day: you don't have to go out in order to create a memorable evening. Don't believe me? There are a lot of reasons that make dinner at home a better option than dining out, but here are the top three. Avoid the Holiday - [Book Review: Leaving the hall Light On by Madeline Sharples](https://www.agingabundantly.com/leaving-the-hall-light-on/) - Living with Mental Illness and Surviving Suicide - One Mother's Story Leaving the Hall Light On, A Mother's Memoir of Living with Her Son's Bipolar Disorder and Surviving His Suicide is the powerful, heart wrenching story of one women's journey through 17 years as parent to a son with a bi-polar disorder. It is a story of - [Looking for a Good Book to Read? Join Our Book Club](https://www.agingabundantly.com/looking-for-a-good-book-to-read/) - Aging Abundantly Book Club Update The Aging Abundantly Book Club on Facebook is going strong. We currently have 221 members and always welcome more! It's a closed group and I monitor it to make sure that there are no unsavory characters lurking about, or spammers. In the past we have selected a group book and collectively - [ENGAGING THE SENSES to Manage Stress](https://www.agingabundantly.com/engage-senses-stress-management/) - MANAGE STRESS BY FEEDING YOUR SENSES Awakening and engaging our senses provides us with valuable information and guidance that can assist us in evaluating and managing stress. Rather than forcing our body to submit to the direction of our mind alone, we can learn to work with it, instead of against it. We become allies - [GOING GYPSY or How to Escape Old Age & Survive](https://www.agingabundantly.com/going-gypsy-or-how-to-escape-old-age-survive/) - I have followied Veronica and David James of Gypsynester fame since they first flew the empty nest and ventured into the world of life on the road. I admired there chutzpah and their sense of humor, not to mention their upbeat outlook on life. It was a breath of fresh air. Life seem more than hard - [BLOOM WHERE YOU'RE PLANTED - JUST WATER THE DAMN PLANT!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-am-i-supposed-to-be-doing-now-that-im-almost-old-2/) - Every once in a while I hear an idea that at first I’m inclined to dismiss, but something needles me until I reconsider. Then, when I do, I find a shift takes place in my perspective. I may even have an “ah ha!” moment. If you’ve ever had one you know it’s like a light - [BLACK FRIDAY at the Aging Abundantly Gift Shop](https://www.agingabundantly.com/black-friday-at-the-aging-abundantly-gift-shop/) - I don't know about you, but I've never been much of a Black Friday shopper. I do love a bargain, but I find no pleasure in battling crowds to get one. My sister, on the other hand, loves to shop anytime, anywhere, any day. Back in the days when my husband and I lived in metropolitan - [TODAY'S TIP TO RELIEVE CAREGIVER STRESS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/tips-to-relieve-caregiver-stress/) - It seems I've taken a high dive into the deep end of the caregiver stress pool! The unimaginable happened, and as some of you know, I am now in the position of caring for my husband. While I am familiar with caregiving from the aging parent viewpoint, caring for a spouse is a very different - [How to Accept Being a Caregiver](https://www.agingabundantly.com/accept-being-a-caregiver/) - I would venture a guess that there are very few people who love being a caregiver to a husband or family member. Most caregivers find themselves in this role by default. A loved one falls ill and we are present and able. Women, by nature and cultural influences, are most often the care providers. We - [PURPOSE and THE RIPPLE EFFECT](https://www.agingabundantly.com/purpose-and-the-ripple-effect/) - Do you know what your purpose in life is? This is not a question that's easy for many to answer. Purpose is a thing that we seem to be chasing, trying to figure out as it morphs and changes and slips through our fingers. One day we think it's one thing and the next we - [WRITING THROUGH CHANGE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/writing-through-change/) - Writing through change and challenges helps me unravel my thoughts and emotions, sort them out, create space in my mind for possibilities and let go of some of the debris. It is a healing process I started when I was a teen. When things are really hard, however, I find I seldom have the discipline - [Aging Abundantly Is An Inside Job](https://www.agingabundantly.com/aging-is-an-inside-job/) - Aging Abundantly sounds wonderful, doesn't it. But it takes work. It's an "inside job". It seems like a hundred years ago that Sophie Lumen of The Art of Aging began to amass her spectacular following on Facebook. We stumbled across each other and immediately recognized that we were kindred spirits. We joined forces in heart - [Carl Jung - Projections](https://www.agingabundantly.com/carl-jung-projections/) - Carl Jung was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst is responsible for the birth of analytical psychology. His theory of the "collective unconscious" continues to have an enormous impact on both psychology and spirituality and where the two cross paths. Personality Theory and Carl Jung Personality theory and the very familiar "Myers Briggs Personality Types" owes - [STRESS REDUCTION TECHNIQUES](https://www.agingabundantly.com/stress-reduction-techniques/) - Using stress reduction techniques have helped me weather any number of storms throughout 2020 and 2021. This just ending holiday season held a new level of angst for the Sander family. The resurgent pandemic was an unwelcome addition to the party, creating anxiety around long put off travel plans and gatherings. Sadly, that's just the - [Brené Brown's Books & Quotes](https://www.agingabundantly.com/brene-browns-books-quotes/) - I started reading Brené Brown's books when I a friend said to me, "You have to read her books!" It was in the earlish days of Ted Talks, and her talk on Vulnerability rocketed her into the public eye. I wasn't into watching videos at the time, so I picked up one of her books. - [THE PERKS OF GROWING OLDER](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-perks-of-growing-older/) - As family members told us as they were growing older, the older we get, the less stressed we will be with everyday life and the more patient and understanding we will become. With age comes a ton of experience that broadens our perspective and improves our outlook on life. If you are worried about getting - [Beyond the Empty Nest](https://www.agingabundantly.com/beyond-the-empty-nest/) - One day, we wake up and find ourselves alone. Suddenly we are empty nesters. It was easy to laugh and joke about it as we anticipated this moment. We couldn’t wait “to do our own thing”, “have the house to ourselves”, and “be free at last”. The reality, however, is quite different. - [Watch for These Signs That An Older Person Needs Support](https://www.agingabundantly.com/signs-older-person-needs-support/) - Knowing when an older person needs support is not always easy. It is difficult when caring for aging parents, or a spouse, to know what they need. They were often the ones giving us support. Helping an elderly person any time is challenging, but learning what signs to watch for can make it easier to - [Feeling Lost?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/feeling-lost/) - Feeling lost, uncertain, wondering what to do with the rest of your life? Overwhelmed by life’s difficulties? Turn your attention to the things that bring you even a flutter of positive energy. Do anything and everything you love to do, even little things. Does cleaning the kitchen bring you peace of mind? Clean the kitchen. - [UNITING BEHIND THE PEOPLE OF UKRAINE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/support-the-people-of-ukraine/) - The invasion into Ukraine has presented us with another set of unexpected circumstances. As a result, the world is shocked, stunned even, by the blatant onslaught of a peaceful country by a bullying autocracy. One man, flesh and blood like each of us, has chosen to unleash a horror, most of us can only imagine - [Worry Less and Enjoy Life More - Two Simple Practices](https://www.agingabundantly.com/worry-less-and-enjoy-life-more-two-simple-practices/) - Worry is a habit most of us have spent a lifetime cultivating. When we start worrying as young people, most of us didn't even think of it as worrying. What we thought we were doing, and likely still do, is figuring things out. There is a fine line between using our brains to problem solve - ["I'm So Worried!" How to Get Off the Worry Train](https://www.agingabundantly.com/im-so-worried-how-to-get-off-the-worry-train/) - I hear the words, "I'm so worried" almost every day. While not everyone uses these precise words, their meaning is the same. I hear the alarm in their voice, the concern in their tone and the deep emotion that keeps their thoughts churning. Trust me. I get it. There's plenty to worry about these days, - [Valentine's Day for Lovers of All Ages](https://www.agingabundantly.com/valentines-day/) - It is true that Valentine's Day, like Mother's Day and other such holidays has been exploited by commercial enterprises seeking any occasion to market their wares. Historically, however, it has a much more interesting past that has morphed and evolved as culture demanded. While at it's roots, Valentine's Day is about love and generosity of - [The Power of Our Imagination](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-power-of-our-imagination/) - A person's ability to imagine is a potent source of power that every person alive possesses. We may believe that our imagination has been displaced by pain and trauma or that we no longer have access to it, if indeed we had any to start. Or, we may be operating on the assumption that we need to think - ["Defining Life Realistically" JUNG'S THIRD TASK OF AGING](https://www.agingabundantly.com/defining-life-realistically-jungs-third-task-of-aging/) - "Defining Life Realistically" is Carl Jung's third task of his Seven Tasks of Aging. The last ten years have been a major reality check for me. I'm still trying to find my balance. When we "cling to illusions that are contrary to reality, then problems will surely arise", according to Jung. We come into the - [CARL JUNG'S LIFE REVIEW - Tasks of Aging](https://www.agingabundantly.com/carl-jungs-life-review/) - MOM'S LIFE REVIEW When my mother was in her nineties, she became obsessed with telling me stories of her life. I heard about people, places and experiences that she had never shared with me, or perhaps anyone, before. I understood her need to go back and revisit her life having read and studied Erik Erikson's - [ONE FRIDAY NIGHT](https://www.agingabundantly.com/one-friday-night/) - One Friday Night: They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Sadly, I don't have a picture, or a video which is what I really need to tell this story. My only prop is the English language. For some this would be enough. In this instance, I'm not sure I can pull it off, - [BETRAYAL & The Power to Heal](https://www.agingabundantly.com/betrayal-and-the-power-to-heal/) - Betrayal is a tough pill to swallow. I doubt that there is a person alive who has not felt betrayed at some time or another. Merriam-Webster offers several definitions of the word betray that reveal its potential to wound: 1) to fail or desert especially in time of need; 2) to reveal unintentionally; 3) to - [A Guide to Navigating a Mesothelioma Diagnosis](https://www.agingabundantly.com/treatment-and-diagnosis-for-mesothelioma-aging-abundantly/) - A mesothelioma diagnosis, or learning of any chronic disease can feel completely overwhelming. It's a life changer. But, as I've learned in dealing with my husband's diagnosis of IBM (Inclusion Body Myositis), knowledge is power. The more we learn about not only the illness itself, but the means of dealing with it emotionally and practically, - [GIVE FROM YOUR ABUNDANCE](https://www.agingabundantly.com/give-from-your-abudance/) - If you're a caregiver, as I am, chances are good that your initial response to give from your abundance was, "yeah, right." 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Learning the basics of what therapy is and isn't, - [Accepting the Role of Caregiver to Aging Parents](https://www.agingabundantly.com/accepting-the-role-of-caregiver-to-your-aging-parents/) - The role of caregiver to aging parents can be a rugged journey along a treacherous path of frustration and indecision. As children of aging parents, we are often right in the middle of the busiest part of our own lives. Growing children, stressful careers, financial concerns, an empty nest loom large. Our worries, along with - [In-Home Health Care - Pros & Cons](https://www.agingabundantly.com/in-home-health-care-pros-cons/) - When looking for in-home health care, whether for yourself or your parents, there are a variety of factors to consider. Planning for the long term will help you ensure that you or your parents are getting the assistance they need, when they need it. If you’re unsure what home health-care might look like for your - [Tackling Loneliness in the COVID-19 World](https://www.agingabundantly.com/tackling-loneliness-in-the-covid-19-world/) - Tackling loneliness in the COVID-19 world is not at all the same as tackling it in so-called normal times. We’re living through unprecedented times right now. Just a few months ago, very few of us could have predicted just much how life would change in March and April. Individuals around the world are following strict - [Why You Should Consider Returning to Education in Later Life](https://www.agingabundantly.com/returning-to-education-in-later-life/) - Many people are returning to education in later life. When we were young, compulsory education mandated that we attend school. We went because we had to. A few loved it and kept at it because they were keen on learning what they needed to learn to obtain their dream jobs. 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Twenty and thirty years later, we still sometimes find ourselves feeling uncomfortable with money and accurately calculating - [MONEY - THE ELEPHANT IN THE CLOSET](https://www.agingabundantly.com/money/) - Women, particularly women over fifty, have an uneasy relationship with money. We experience guilt or shame whether we have more than enough or not enough. To make matters worse, we don't like to talk about these feelings. When we tell our story and make ourselves vulnerable we have an opportunity to change. - [The Gift of Presence](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-gaggle-of-geese-the-gift-of-presence/) - As a driver, I cut my teeth on the highways and byways of metropolitan New York. Fear of speed and traffic was not a part of my lexicon. A serious car accident, however, changed all that in a flash. 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Her voice of wisdom is strong and growing stronger with each - [Moving Forward by Lucinda Sage-Midgorden](https://www.agingabundantly.com/moving-forward-lucinda-sage-midgorden/) - GOOD MORNING FRIENDS & VISITORS! Welcome to Aging Abundantly's Voices of Wisdom Series! This series is about providing both the space and opportunity for women over fifty to tell their story and to share a bit of wisdom they gained in the process of living it. If you would like to be a guest writer, - [Turning Grief into Art By Madeline Sharples](https://www.agingabundantly.com/turning-grief-art-madeline-sharples/) - Madeline Sharples suffered an unthinkable loss, but her grief was not the end of the story. Not by a long shot. TURNING GRIEF INTO ART by Madeline Sharples I was 59 years old when my son, suffering with bipolar disorder, took his own life. 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We don’t have to talk - [Soul Encounter - An Encounter that Goes Right to Our Soul](https://www.agingabundantly.com/soul-encounter/) - A soul encounter often comes when we least expect it. My grand-dog Rowdy and I have done our fair share of walking in the rain lately! Like many on the east AND west coast, we've had one of the rainiest (and warmest) early winters on record. I often walk to settle my nerves and with the holidays - [We Are Not Broken - You Are Not Broken](https://www.agingabundantly.com/you-are-not-broken/) - Welcome to Wisdom Wednesday Feeling and believing that we are broken or don't measure up in some way...that we are flawed...inadequate...and in need of fixing...is an illusion. You are not broken. Perfection is a fantasy. As human beings we have the ability to see, to conceptualize, a more perfect something. It's an ability that drives - [The Mask of Fear - International Women's Day](https://www.agingabundantly.com/international-womens-day-onedayiwill/) - International Women's Day and the hashtag #OneDayIWill I planned to write a blog on fear today, but the first thing to capture my attention was the header on the Google Home Page noting International Women's Day. I know women in this country or more blessed than women in other parts of the world, but I couldn't help but be - [Inspiring Quotes by Coretta Scott King](https://www.agingabundantly.com/quotes-by-coretta-scott-king/) - Women, if the soul of the nation is to be saved, I believe that you must become its soul." Coretta Scott King It's always been said that behind every great man is an extraordinary woman. This was even more true at the time Martin Luther King, Jr. and his wife Coretta Scott King fought for racial equality. Coretta - [Coming Full Circle - Day #4](https://www.agingabundantly.com/coming-full-circle-day-4/) - My family moved from a quaint little town not far from Erie, PA, to a small paper mill town on the Androscoggin River in Maine. My father, an electrical engineer, was perhaps, taking a step up the corporate ladder. Just shy of my third birthday, my mother, my two older sisters and I traveled by sleeper - [SUE INGEBRETSON ~ Author of FibroWHYalgia](https://www.agingabundantly.com/sue-ingebretson-author-of-fibrowhyalgia/) - Sue Ingebretson has been studying health issues, and fibromyalgia in particular, for fourteen years. Committed to helping others afflicted with chronic illness, she serves as the director of program development for the Fibromyalgia Research and Education Center at California State University, Fullerton. She has collaborated in an assortment of community education projects with local support - [RIPE: Rich, Rewarding Work After 50 by Julia Moulden](https://www.agingabundantly.com/ripe-rich-rewarding-work-after-50-by-julia-moulden/) - Are you one of the many women over fifty looking for rich and rewarding work? A job or career that will not only put money in your pocket but meaning in your life? Julia Moulden provides readers with the necessary guidance and tools to make it happen in her new book RIPE. A member of - [FATHER'S DAY GIFT IDEAS for BOOMER MEN](https://www.agingabundantly.com/fathers-day-gifts-for-boomer-men/) - Father’s Day is just around the corner. It’s the perfect time to start thinking about a special gift for the fathers in your life. My husband and I both loved the these two books. Light, but thought-provoking, they are perfect summer reading for the midlife male. Summer Reads for Boomer Men LIFE AT 12 COLLEGE ROAD, - [DALE CARTER~ Transition Aging Parents](https://www.agingabundantly.com/meet-dale-carter-transition-aging-parents/) - Dale Carter, an Aging Advocate/Speaker/Coach, loves teaching others how to guide their own aging parent or loved one through the changes they often face. Focusing on the preservation and strengthening of relationships, Dale will show you how to save time, money and heartache. Here is how Dale describes her journey into her role as Aging - [GRAVY DAYS by Sue Ann Crockett](https://www.agingabundantly.com/gravy-days-by-sue-ann-crockett/) - Sue Ann Crockett is a delight both on and off the page. Her enthusiasm for life is infectious and her smile and wit light up the room. A newspaper columnist and freelance writer, lives in the Pacific Northwest where her award-winning Gravy Days column appears in The Ferndale Record. In her spare time she blogs - [THE BEST OF EVERYTHING AFTER 50 by Barbara Grufferman](https://www.agingabundantly.com/barbara-hannah-grufferman/) - Barbara Hannah Grufferman's book should be wrapped in brightly colored wrapping paper, tied up with a fashionable bow and handed to every woman on her fiftieth birthday. (Later is okay too!) The Best of Everything After 50: The Experts' Guide to Style, Sex, Health, Money, and More is written in Barbara’s typical no-nonsense, down to earth, - [Surviving Divorce](https://www.agingabundantly.com/surviving-divorce-2/) - A PERSONAL STORY by Chris Moon-Willems As I sat on the edge of the bed grappling for my glasses, blood pouring from my nose, I realized the blow to my face signaled the end of my 34 year marriage. I had been unhappy for years, in fact ever since I realized I couldn’t change my husband’s - [Recommended Audio Series for the Midlife Woman in Transition](https://www.agingabundantly.com/bookaudio-by-dr-clarissa-pinkola-estes/) - CLARISSA PINKOLA ESTÉS, PhD The following selection of audio books are among the most powerful that I have found that speak to the heart of the midlife woman in transition and the joy of becoming a "dangerous old woman". I own each one and have listened to them numerous times throughout the last several years. - [QUIET by Susan Cain](https://www.agingabundantly.com/quiet-by-susan-cain/) - Browsing through the audio books on one of my favorite websites, Audible.com, I was drawn to a book called Quiet, by Susan Cain. The title caught my attention, but it was the subtitle that hooked me: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking. An introvert through and through, I knew I had - [Breakfast with Buddha - A Review](https://www.agingabundantly.com/breakfast-with-buddha-a-review/) - The Aging Abundantly Book Club on Facebook just finished reading Breakfast with Buddha by Roland Merullo. What a delight! I think the thing I liked most about Breakfast with Buddha was the utter honesty portrayed by the main character. I doubt there's a single person alive that can't resonate in some way or another with - [I Choose to Inhabit My Days](https://www.agingabundantly.com/i-choose-to-inhabit-my-days/) - I was swept away by this poem, posted on a blog I follow called Soul Gatherings. I, like Theresa, have a love of quotes and words strung beautifully together such as Dawna Markova's poem. For me, words at their best create a symbolic tapestry that calls to our heart, tugs on our spirit and puts voice to - [Food for Fun - Day #10](https://www.agingabundantly.com/food-for-fun-day-10/) - Today I woke up more clear-headed than I have in centuries! The ebb and flow of anxiety and depression has become less severe. I feel fatigued at times if I try to do too much, or don't keep my food intake up. While all is not perfect, I am feeling better and better each day. - [Fifty, not Frumpy](https://www.agingabundantly.com/fifty-not-frumpy/) - (A Note from Dorothy: Every once in a while during my online travels and ongoing conversations with women over fifty, I run across an exciting new voice. This was my experience when I stumbled upon Susan Street's page on Facebook, FiftyNotFrumpy. She provides a breath of fresh air for women who are tired of trying - [A Simple Frame House](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-simple-frame-house/) - As I have probably mentioned before, I have a furry grandchild. Every morning he whines and fusses and stalks me until I take him for a walk. He is the bane of my existence, but he has made sure I exercise every day and for that I am grateful. This morning’s walk was a lovely - [Being Older and Wiser is the Icing on the Cake of Life](https://www.agingabundantly.com/being-older-and-wiser-is-the-icing-on-the-cake-of-life/) - I know I am not the only one who has said repeatedly in recent years, “Gosh, I wish I knew that twenty years ago!”…or ten years ago, or five, or even yesterday! As we move into our later years it’s easy to bemoan not only our aging body, but that everything we learned getting to - [Finding Security at any Age](https://www.agingabundantly.com/security-at-any-age/) - If there's one thing I've learned about life in the past sixty years it's that the ground is always shifting beneath my feet. Even when I think nothing is changing, it is. It may be only a slight shift in perspective that comes on the heals of a an article I read or a friend's comment. - [Paula Deen, Aunt Bee and Motherhood](https://www.agingabundantly.com/paula-deen-aunt-bee-and-motherhood/) - Paula Deen fell under scrutiny recently when it was revealed that she is diabetic. Her worst critics are her peers, the fifty something women who cluck at her bad behavior and respond in a superior fashion with comments like, “I’m not surprised” and “the audacity! The woman even makes money off the drugs that treat - [Looking and Feeling Great at Any Age](https://www.agingabundantly.com/looking-and-feeling-great-at-any-age/) - Regardless of our height, weight or physical limitations, feeling comfortable in our body is important at any age. When our clothes fit and feel comfortable they become an expression of who we are and can not only be an enjoyable experience but uplifting as well. Many of us throw our hands up in the air - [Dream Large with Pinterest](https://www.agingabundantly.com/dream-large-with-pinterest/) - A month or so ago, Pinterest was not anywhere near the top of my “to do” list. It wasn’t even on it! I was standing in defiance of the latest social media trend that threatened to steal even more time from my day and suck more life out of what creativity I had left! Curiosity, - [Getting it Together after Fifty](https://www.agingabundantly.com/getting-it-together-after-fifty/) - I think we pretty much all are in agreement by the time we reach fifty and sixty: Life is not a simple thing! In fact, in many ways, it just becomes more complex the older we get. The good news is that we now have a rich arsenal of experience upon which to draw as - [Zen and the Art of Aging](https://www.agingabundantly.com/zen-and-the-art-of-aging/) - I was talking to a friend the other day. Like most of us she has way more problems in her life than she’d like to have, frankly more than her share. But, who is to say what a fair share is? What may be devastating to one person may be a roll in the hay - [Soul Expression](https://www.agingabundantly.com/soul-expression/) - Last night my son and I went out together for ice cream. I never thought I'd see the day when I would blissfully hand my keys over to him and ask, "would you mind driving?" He's an adult now and I've come to lean just a little on his competence. He's a kind, gentle soul - [Aging in Place](https://www.agingabundantly.com/aging-in-place/) - "Aging in place" is a growing trend among the members of the boomer generation. I'm not sure whether the trend was spawned by watching how our parents chose to live out their elder years, economics, or just personal preference, but more and more people are choosing to stay in their homes for the foreseeable future - [You Don't Have to Be "Elderly" to Be Affected by Excessive Summer Heat](https://www.agingabundantly.com/you-dont-have-to-be-elderly-to-be-affected-by-excessive-summer-heat/) - We hear all the time that heat stress (hypothermia) is a serious issue for the elderly. Of course, it's absolutely true! What we may not be considering is that while most of us do not consider ourselves “elderly” at 55, 65 or even 75, the fact remains that we are more susceptible to the ill - [More Quotes to Live By](https://www.agingabundantly.com/more-quotes-to-live-b/) - Source: middayescapades.com via Aging Abundantly/ on Pinterest “The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways - [Midlife Madness](https://www.agingabundantly.com/midlife-madness/) - Midlife hit me over the head with a hammer and then dropped kicked me into another universe. One minute I was boogying along, full speed ahead, the next I was laying flat out on the floor. Do you know what I’m talking about? I think back, in a still recent retrospect, and I can’t even - [Cures for "Midlife Madness Fatigue"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/cures-for-midlife-madness-fatigue/) - There's a lesson to be learned by those just beginning their journey into midlife from my experiences that I describe in Midlife Madness. The most important of which is that it's time to fasten your seat belt and hold on for dear life! You're in for the ride of your life! All kidding aside, midlife - [Chia Seeds Are Good for Damaged and Aging Skin](https://www.agingabundantly.com/chia-seeds-are-good-for-damaged-and-aging-skin/) - 5 Easy Chia Seed Recipes For Fabulous Skin by Lisa D Liguori Do you want a simple tool in your diet that can help prevent free radical damage, inflammation, and premature aging of the skin? I thought so. The Teeny Tiny Powerhouse If you open my fridge, you will see various jars of seeds; hemp, - [Is Facebook the New Church?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/facebook-the-new-church/) - I went to church regularly for the first seventeen years of my life. I grew up in a family of lifelong Episcopalians and I learned early on the value of falling asleep during a sermon. An inner quarrel grew, however, as I began to experience what I perceived as a disparity between what I believed - [A Dark Night Descends in Aurora](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-dark-night-descends-in-aurora/) - My heart breaks and my prayers go out to the friends and family of all those involved in the Aurora, Colorado shooting. As their lives were being turned upside down, my twenty-something sons were eagerly anticipating and preparing for opening night of Dark Night Rises here in North Carolina. They purchased tickets well in advance - [Be Who You Were Born to Be](https://www.agingabundantly.com/be-who-you-were-born-to-be/) - As we get older life takes on new texture and color. Sometimes it's dark and disturbing. At other times it's richer than we ever imagined. Our focus sharpens. Things that once were paramount in importance suddenly seem silly and frivolous. Other things, that we previously put on the back burner, take on a new sense of - [The Gift of Age](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-gift-of-age/) - Living just for today can be a real challenge for those of us who have lived our lives immersed in western culture. Every where we turn we hear messages, reminders, and indicators that unless we are moving forward at break neck speed we are not really living. Buddha, and others, understood the disservice we do to ourselves, - [November is National Caregiver's Month](https://www.agingabundantly.com/november-is-national-caregivers-month/) - Support for the caregiver has grown by leaps and bounds since I cared for my aging parents ten plus years ago. It was a frustrating and lonely road at that and my siblings and I spent many hours trying to figure out what to do and how to do it. Now, information and advice lies - [Improving Home Safety and Ease of Mobility - Aging In Place](https://www.agingabundantly.com/improving-home-safety-and-ease-of-mobility-aging-in-place/) - Tips For The Accessible Home By Patricia Moore Accessibility to a home--both indoors and out -- is important to help people of all ages maintain independence while ensuring safety and security. Simple changes and upgrades to a home can help loved ones stay in their homes and familiar environments longer. The best indoor flooring options - [Caregivers Benefit from Internet Tools](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-value-of-the-internet-to-caregivers/) - In honor of National Family Caregiver Month: The month is coming to an end, but the job of the caregiver does not. Take a moment to thank a caregiver whenever you have the opportunity and if you are a caregiver, don't hesitate to reach out to a support network online or off. You don't have - [Finding Courage](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-courage/) - “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.” ~ Anaïs Nin A few years ago, a couple of friends and I bought matching silver “tree of life” pendants for our necklaces. I love the tree of life and it’s representation of a healthy life with strong roots holding to the earth, and healthy limbs - [Rediscovering Your Gifts](https://www.agingabundantly.com/rediscovering-your-gifts/) - We each carry within us a treasure. Living deep inside, it is a quiet place where we can go to find our untarnished heart and a soul that is still pure. We once knew this place, our place where there is peace and understanding, wisdom and strength, though it may have slipped from our memory. - [Protect Your Eyes from the Summer Sun](https://www.agingabundantly.com/protect-your-eyes-from-the-summer-sun-all-year-long/) - As a member of Vibrant Nation's Vibrant Influencer Network, I recently was invited to try a pair of Dioptics Solar Shield Sunglasses and offer my feedback. It was an easy invite to accept! My sensitive eyes and southern environs require sunglasses year round, especially since I'm an outdoor kinda gal and recently succumbed to the - [Coping with Loss](https://www.agingabundantly.com/coping-with-loss/) - Losing someone we love is likely the most painful and difficult experience we face. Of course there are no easy answers but there are a few things that we can do to support the person who is grieving, even if it is us! Grief, like most things in life is a process. Swiss Psychiatrist Elizabeth - [Dare to Live](https://www.agingabundantly.com/dare-to-live/) - Even as we face the last leg of our journey in life, we must dare to live. We must dare to overcome our fears, grab hold of what we know to be good and honest and true and sink our teeth into its expression. We are a gifted generation. So many of us - [Quotable Musicians](https://www.agingabundantly.com/quotes-by-musicians/) - ◊ ◊ ◊ ◊ ◊ “A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That’s why they don’t get what they want.” - \ Madonna ♦ ♦ ♦ “Being an intellectual creates a lot of questions and no answers. You can fill your life up with ideas and still go home lonely. All you really have that really matters - [Finding Love Over 60: Is Online Dating for You?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-love-over-60-is-online-dating-for-you/) - Just because we're over fifty, or sixty, or seventy, doesn't mean we've necessarily given up on love or finding someone with whom we can share our senior years. It's not always easy, however, to find someone who feels the same way. The good news is, that we have available to us a resource that previous - [Developing A Mindfulness Practice](https://www.agingabundantly.com/developing-a-mindfulness-practice/) - Until recent years, our western culture has been driven by thought processes that are nearly the antithesis of the practice of mindfulness. Our generation, in particular, was taught at a very early age to think ahead, to plan, to set goals, and to learn from our mistakes. We believe that what we are doing today - [Learn to Listen to Your Heart](https://www.agingabundantly.com/learn-to-listen-to-your-heart/) - One of the most important things we can do to create change in our lives, at midlife and beyond, is to learn to listen to our hearts. I paid lip service to this idea for years. I thought I was listening to myself, but I came to realize that I had so many complex messages - [When A Dream Dies](https://www.agingabundantly.com/when-a-dream-dies/) - There comes a time in each woman's life when we look at our best efforts and see only the failure. We started with a dream or a mission or a purpose. We put ourselves behind it, believing without a doubt that we were on the right path. The path was to take us on a - [Women of Wisdom Quotes](https://www.agingabundantly.com/women-of-wisdom-quotes/) - Midlife brings with it the opportunity for growth and exploration of our inner worlds. It prepares us for our wisdom years, prodding and guiding us along our path to wisdom. It is not always an easy journey, as we have much to learn, but it is a powerfully important one, both for ourselves and those - [It's Easier to Be Happy When...](https://www.agingabundantly.com/its-easier-to-be-happy-when/) - It's easier to be happy when we get rid of the "shoulds" in our life and begin replacing them with "want tos". Midlife is the perfect opportunity to shuck the things that are not working and get down to the business of enjoying life on our own terms. In my case, it meant emptying out - [Devotion is a Gift of Aging](https://www.agingabundantly.com/devotion-is-a-gift-of-aging/) - When I see elderly couples together it warms my heart. Whether they are husband and wife, or friends walking arm in arm offering support and comfort to one another, I am lifted up. Aging doesn't have to be a lonely, miserable venture. It can be a time of building trust and lowering our defenses as - [Meditation Prayer on Love by Thich Nhat Hanh](https://www.agingabundantly.com/meditation-prayer-on-love-by-thich-nhat-hanh/) - Meditation Prayer on Love by Thich Nhat Hanh May I be peaceful, happy and light in body and spirit. May I be free from injury. May I live in safety. May I be free from disturbance, fear, anxiety and worry. May I learn to look at myself with the eyes of understanding and love. May I - [We Have the Key](https://www.agingabundantly.com/we-have-the-key/) - "So often time it happens,we all live our life in chains,and we never even know we have the key."The Eagles, Already Gone (Quote taken from Aging Abundantly's A Little Book of Hope) Sometimes it takes a major crisis in our lives to wake us up. Often it just takes turning fifty to realize that our - [Room for Silence](https://www.agingabundantly.com/room-for-silence/) - Spending time in silence each day has become an essential part of my life in recent years. As a young person I valued the idea and practice of quiet meditation, though I was seldom able to do so in a comfortable, consistent fashion. I was too busy searching for answers and direction in more immediate - [The Holiday Blues](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-holiday-blues/) - The holiday season is winding down. If you've made it this far and haven't had a bout of the blues, you're doing great! Pat yourself on the back and keep whistling a happy tune. Your positive energy will surely spill over on someone who could use it! For many, however, the holidays bring up all - [Puppy Learns to Howl! - So Cute!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/puppy-learns-to-howl-so-cute/) - I don't often share videos, but this one made me giggle and I wanted to share it with you. A little pick-me-up is in order this time of year! This little guy was only 20 days old when this video was filmed. Named Belka, which means "squirrel" in Russian - she is now a full - [Embrace Your Child's Heart](https://www.agingabundantly.com/embrace-your-childs-heart/) - The midlife transformation that begins in earnest at fifty, and that many of us have already spent a decade or more navigating, is a turning point for many. The dark, confusing period of time, during which everything around us is shifting, is so disconcerting that it drives us every day, with much earnestness, to examine - ["Wild Geese" by Mary Oliver](https://www.agingabundantly.com/wild-geese-by-mary-oliver/) - The above image is from: Quotes By Women Mary Oliver was born in 1935 in Ohio. As a young poet she was influenced by Edna St. Vincent Mallay and has received much critical acclaim over the years. "Known for its clear and poignant observations and evocative use of the natural world, Oliver’s poetry is firmly - [Still Time to Re-Think Your New Year's Resolutions!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/still-time-to-re-think-your-new-years-resolutions/) - NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION #1: LOSE WEIGHT? How About Losing Your Girly Thoughts? By Patricia O’Gorman, PhD You have just spent most of the last two months cooking, buying gifts, wrapping them, entertaining, and, of course, eating all those wonderful holiday treats. But now the holidays are over and the new year is here. This might - [Dare to Dream – There’s Still Time to Make a Bucket List!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/dare-to-dream-theres-still-time-to-make-a-bucket-list/) - (Before I begin, I want to thank Bufferin* for selecting me to join its “Bufferin Bucket List” initiative. If it weren’t for this initiative, I might not have taken the time to sit down and really think about my “bucket list”, let alone actually try to achieve the items on it! Now I’m really fired - [Spaces](https://www.agingabundantly.com/spaces/) - I began to think about "spaces" this morning after reading a post by Laurie, one of my favorite bloggers. She is blessed with an abundance of courage and enthusiasm for life. She and her husband recently picked up and moved from the Midwest to Boise, ID. This is a popular and growing trend among boomer - [Welcome to Aging Abundantly](https://www.agingabundantly.com/welcome-to-aging-abundantly/) - The women profiled here on Aging Abundantly are rich in talent, ability, and wisdom. They are also among the nicest, caring and most generous people I have ever had the privilege to meet and with which to work. Without exception, each has infused their business, service or product with the personal love and attention that only a - [Happy Holidays from Aging Abundantly](https://www.agingabundantly.com/happy-holidays-from-aging-abundantly/) - Dear Friends, The real meaning of this holiday season, at least for me, can be found in the joy and laughter of young children. In their faces we can see the purity of hope, untarnished by life's eventualities. Their excitement is contagious and their belief that anything is possible is palpable. We have all received - [Finding Hope - Quotes & Inspiration for Midlife Women](https://www.agingabundantly.com/finding-hope-quotes-inspiration-for-midlife-women/) - FINDING HOPE Quotes & Inspiration Mounting life pressures, unexpected change or disappointment can leave us depleted and without hope. In this book the author gives her readers just the lift they need to make it through hard times. Packed with insight and inspiration, this carefully crafted collection of vignettes and quotes by some of the - [An Authentic Life is a Fluid Life](https://www.agingabundantly.com/an-authentic-life-is-a-fluid-life/) - In other words, life is all about change. I know, what’s with that?! I am only six months away from crossing another threshold. I am being launched, quite unwillingly, into a new decade. I just got used to the last one! It seems like yesterday that I faced all of those enormous "growth opportunities" that - [A Meditation](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-meditation/) - Life demands so much from each of us each and every day. It doesn't matter whether we are doing what we love to do or have found ourselves in circumstances we hate. We still have to face each day, look fear and uncertainty in the eye, and move forward. If we don't we can not - [IRINA WARDAS ~ Health and Nutrition Counselor](https://www.agingabundantly.com/meet-irina-wardas-health-and-nutrition-counselor/) - Irina Wardas graduated from Columbia Teacher's College with a degree in education. More importantly, she comes from a family tradition of holistic and alternative health and is herself a second generation alternative health practitioner. She has studied nutrition, reflexology, ayurveda, detoxification and cleansing tools, and have taught yoga for children both in Europe and USA. - [Saying Yes to Life](https://www.agingabundantly.com/saying-yes-to-life/) - "You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt It’s not always easy to figure out why people do what they do, especially when that person is ourselves. Despite - [A Gift for Mom](https://www.agingabundantly.com/a-gift-for-an-aging-parent/) - My mother lived to be ninety-seven years old. Born in 1911 she saw the world undergo enormous changes. She lived a life that was not without its problems, but always seemed to find a way to give to those in need. When she and my father sold the family home and moved into a retirement - [Mom's 100th Birthday](https://www.agingabundantly.com/moms-100th-birthday-2/) - Today is my mother’s 100th Birthday. Though she did not live to blow out the conflagration on her birthday cake, I think she would have liked to. All things being equal, the world conspired against that eventuality. My mother was a woman who saw little in her life’s accomplishments, though they were many. She did - [Mother's Day](https://www.agingabundantly.com/mothers-day/) - I'm spending Mother’s Day with Mom, sitting beside her hospital bed. Three days ago she fell and broke her upper thigh bone, only a few short weeks after we moved her into the one room assisted living wing of the retirement community. She is frail and suffers mild dementia. Miraculously she has survived surgery, unlike - [THE FANTASY OF YOUTH](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-fantasy-of-youth/) - Ironically, this is my Alma mater! Lately I have been reflecting on the lost optimism of my youth, once such an integral part of who I was. Its absence disturbs me. I want it back! I want to feel all that giddy hope and excitement about the future I once had, the deep conviction that - [Life's Gifts](https://www.agingabundantly.com/lifes-gifts/) - I lost a very good friend last week ~ not a friend I called every day, but a friend I enjoyed sitting beside and having a cup of tea. My friend was strong and steady, providing shelter in storms that arose unexpectedly. After many a long day I allowed myself to be propped and supported - [The Fertile Ground of Shattered Dreams](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-fertile-ground-of-shattered-dreams/) - Our beautiful maple tree lies in pieces on our front lawn, as the blossom laden magnolia looks on. This magnificent tree had its home in the very center of our front yard, and I watched as it grew from a tiny sapling to a large, spreading beauty that garnered the attention of strangers with cameras - [What is the Answer to Compassion Fatigue?](https://www.agingabundantly.com/what-is-the-answer-to-compassion-fatigue/) - Compassion fatigue, a type of burnout, is a common problem among caregivers of all types ~ nurses, doctors, social workers, etc. It has become a more noticeable problem within the boomer generation as more and more individuals are taking on the care of an aging parent while being caught in the “sandwich generation”. 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She did - [PEACE and PLENTY after Fifty](https://www.agingabundantly.com/peace-and-plenty-after-fifty/) - Abundance is a word that means different things to different people. When I was trying to think of a name for my blog I came up with the name Aging Abundantly but struggled with it because I was afraid that it would send the wrong message. I would not, of course, be focusing on how to - [The Ageless Wisdom of Childhood](https://www.agingabundantly.com/the-ageless-wisdom-of-childhood/) - Childhood is a magical time. In spite of the “slings and arrows of outrageous fortune”, innocent beings see life differently. A child has an enormous curiosity, endless good will, hope that won’t quit and complete faith in life. The years may whittle away our innocence and undermine our confidence in life, but I have come - [On a Lighter Note](https://www.agingabundantly.com/on-a-lighter-note/) - Did you know that more people than ever are retiring abroad? According to an article I read today on CNBC.com "An estimated half a million American seniors have moved overseas to retire in recent years, and that number is growing. Some relocate abroad to get a bigger bang for their ever-shrinking retirement buck. Others go - [Aging in Cyberspace](https://www.agingabundantly.com/aging-on-cyberspace/) - The internet has offered aging women an opportunity to step out of their solitude and find friendship and advice from fellow life travelers. It’s a new world. Just a generation or two ago, women aged in the comfort of their own home with children, grandchildren, brothers and sisters within arm’s reach. This, of course, is something of - [SUPPORT FOR CAREGIVERS](https://www.agingabundantly.com/caregiving-blogs/) - There are many caregiving blogs offering support, advice and information for the caregiver. Each has something unique to offer and worth a visit if you are caring for a loved one. It's a great place to talk about issues that concern you and see how others are handling their particular set of circumstances. Many websites - [Entering the Age of Elegance](https://www.agingabundantly.com/entering-the-age-of-elegance/) - Travel through your “rite of passage” into the “age of elegance” with Chloe Jon Paul as your guide. Entering the Age of Elegance, written in the format of a travel guide, presents a detailed itinerary and plenty of guidance for a well planned journey. Jon Paul discusses every conceivable aspect of aging, some you may have already - [Laurie Schur ~ Director of "The Beauty of Aging"](https://www.agingabundantly.com/laurie-schur-film-director/) - Laurie Schur, spent her life helping others. For 25 years during her career as a psychotherapist, she used her education and knowledge to assist those looking for solutions to life’s problems. The time arrived, however, when she began looking in earnest for answers for herself. Intuitively aware that her own aging process would be unlike - [Bubble Busters](https://www.agingabundantly.com/bubble-busters/) - I doubt there is a single person alive who has not, at one time or another, encountered a bubble buster. You know, that person who too often you choose to call when you’re all excited about some new idea or adventure you've dreamed up, and when you share it with them they say, “What would - [Aging Abundantly through the Challenges of Marriage](https://www.agingabundantly.com/aging-abundantly-through-the-challenges-of-marriage/) - I fixed myself a cup of tea before sitting down to write this blog. I’m a coffee drinker but certain moments call for a cup of herbal tea and this is one of them. I decided a few days ago, prompted by a comment from one of my favorite readers, to write about marriage and - [Challenges of Marriage at Midlife - Part II](https://www.agingabundantly.com/challenges-of-marriage-at-midlife-part-ii/) - Once again I’ve been prodded by a Yogi tea bag to write about marriage at midlife! It is unfortunate that Yogi Tea Company isn’t sponsoring my blog! Here it is, last night’s before bed tea bag message: “You can run after satisfaction, but satisfaction must come from within.” ~ A Yogi Tea Company Mystic For - [Facing Our Deepest Fears](https://www.agingabundantly.com/facing-our-deepest-fears/) - Living in fear can take the joy from life and the texture from living. It's easy to feel the nudge of fear that would have us huddle in a corner afraid to venture forth. A day doesn't go by that we don't hear of, or live through, a natural disaster or the not-so-natural destruction that - [Telling Our Story](https://www.agingabundantly.com/telling-our-story/) - When I made the decision to take my desire to write more seriously, I signed up for a class at Writer's Online Workshop sponsored by Writer's Digest, a website that seems to have morphed into . An early online class, it took place in a cyber class and the students benefited from personal critiques of the - [Help! I Keep Spilling My Coffee!](https://www.agingabundantly.com/i-keep-spilling-my-coffee/) - Am I the only one who has this problem? Spilling my coffee on a regular basis simply adds insult to injury when it comes to my tenuous sense of control over life. I fear I'm not aging gracefully, let alone abundantly! I used to consider myself a person of style and sophistication. 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